We have been going for almost a year now and things go good sometimes but for the last few months things havent been that great! We dont talk much anymore, we almost never see each other, he gets mad over small lil things, and he picks other ppl over me! But when he gets mean towards me i get mean back then he gets in a good mood and i am still in a bad mood from his attitude and then we get into an argument! And all we ever do is arugue anymore! I dont think his parents like me that much! Wat do i do? I am deeply in love with him and i think he is love with me to ! Wat should i do to make our relationship better and more sucure?? Oh yeah we are both 14 and going to the 9th grade!!!
2006-08-06 11:47:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-06 11:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not in that relationship. Love it just something you feel.
It seems like he is irritated by you. I think you guys need some space. Your just sprung. He just afraid to hurt your feelings. And break it off. most guys are like that. He will always love you. But sometimes. People loose their feeling for one another. And eventhough you are still in love with him. You can;t make him feel the same. i mean you said it your self that you don't talk much anymore or SEE eachother as much as you used to. Take the hint! it's obvious! How do you know his parents don;t like you? Because he told you so? why are you involvoing his parents. You 2 are in a relationship no. you, him and his Parents. I'd be worried about that too if i was 14. parents are going to talk sh!t regardless you can avoid that!
If you want your relationship better. You need to communicate more with your boyfriend. put you foot down. have an adult conversation, tell him how you feel and ask him if he wants to go on with this and how do he feel about you. Ask him questions he's your bf. I can;t speak for him and say: "yeah he still loves you or not!" you need to talk to him. Tell him that you don't want to fight anymore. ask him why he does certain things. Instead of assuming. so you can understand more of what's going on in his head. don;t get pissed off because he picks his friends side over yours. That's childish. If you want attention let him know. Don;'t start yellling. Tell him that it hurts you when he does certiain things. You guys have a huge lack of communication. That's what leads to most arguments. I mean if yoou guys have been disconnected for awhile now. I think you should just leave it at that. But if you want to work things out and keep your man you need to Speak up and let him know what is on your mind!!
2006-08-06 12:02:35 · answer #2 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well everyone else has already made it clear that you both are young & have much more to learn, but I want to let you know that even being grown you will have these same issues.
Alot of times you just have to let the small stuff go because no matter what, you do things he doesn't like & he does things you don't like. Enjoy hanging out & don't forget how to just be friends sometimes because that's where the stability needs to be if you both plan to be close for a long time.
2006-08-06 13:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I hope that you guys are going to the same highscool. If not, things are going to get worst. You should talk to him about this. Let him know how you feel. And if he likes you as much as you say that he does then he will talk to you one on one and you guys will work out your problems on your own. p.s. You are too young to be worried about love. There are alot of guys that are going to come around. And maybe now is not the time to just focus on one if he is hurting to you like this.
2006-08-06 11:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by ~Curious_Ashley~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 14 everyone thinks they're deeply in love. At your age you should be having fun if you're in a relationship, if your're not, get out and find someone you get along with.
Don't waste your time with this guy.
2006-08-06 11:54:33 · answer #5 · answered by Joe S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no lies to the both of you.u guys might make it through until the end. 14 years old enjoy what you guys got don't worry about what people might say or think as long as u both no what u want.
2006-08-06 12:01:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull away. Be seen with other boys. He'll come running back or it will be over. Either way you have your answer.
2006-08-06 11:53:02 · answer #7 · answered by aviator147 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Who cares. There'll be more people in high school that you'll like other than your bipolar boyfriend.
2006-08-06 11:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by Giggles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your to young and you have time on your side.I know its hard to here but what you call love is not what it seems commitment at this stage of your life would be folly
2006-08-06 11:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by froggerty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too young to know what love is.
2006-08-06 11:53:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋