I want a bf sooooooo bad.... but no one has asked me out.... ever and all my friends say that i am good looking... also a cuple of guys like me... but they geeks. How do i get a guy to like/ LOVE me?
2006-08-06 11:44:48 · 26 answers · asked by xotiptoesox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe your too picky...you have a couple so called friends that YOU call geeks..hello wake up your not very nice!
2006-08-06 11:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl there are soooooo many problems with what you said that I hardly know where to start.
1 Your friends say your pretty- no comment on your personality but for the "no one has asked me out". Also the "They geeks" comment says something.
2 A couple of guys like you..."but they geeks". Why? Because they like you???? That speaks to your own issues of self worth.
3 How do you GET a guy to like/LOVE you. You don't make anyone love you..that type of effort will end with you flat on your back and his talking it up the next day.
I know its hard to stop playing the one upsmanship game with your girlfriends but you will be far happier AND a far more desireable date if you do.
2006-08-06 12:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tony the Pony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"But they're geeks" I think the answer to your problem is YOU. Some people can see inner beauty, others only judge the outside appearance. Once you get off your pedestal, maybe you'll see there are plenty of guys out there. And, BTW, the "hot" guys, 9 times out of 10, are going to cheat, lie, and generally screw you over. Find a guy that you enjoy hanging out with, and be friends first. The best relationships are born of friendships.
2006-08-06 11:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Lothario 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if geeks like you then....that only means that you might be a geek too. You want a b/f, somebody that cares for you, somebody to hold your hand while taking you shopping, well, go out and find one. How old are you, because if your like 13, then your too younge anyways. sorry. Just grow up a little and in time things will show up.
2006-08-06 11:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by 96.7 KCAL ROCKS!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok first off don't label people. Secondly, just because they are "geeks" doesn't mean anything. Sometimes the geekiest guys are the nicest. Just because a boy doesn't ask you out doesn't mean you can't ask them out. So you find a cute boy ask him out. You know. And be lucky your single you can check out all the good looking guys and flirt with them.
2006-08-06 11:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say to go for the geeks. they always end up being the best guys for relationships anyways. if you are so desperate to have a bf just give one of them a chance. you shouldn't have to change anything about yourself to get someone to like you.
2006-08-06 11:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Cyndi B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the geeks a chance. Maybe there's more than meets the eye.
2006-08-06 11:47:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so shallow and give the geeks a chance. You never know who they may turn out to be and may be suprised at who they really are.
2006-08-06 11:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by Heath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't honey. You say you want. Does your gut want one? A boy friend isn't something you want or need. You have to let love guide you. Someone you can't take your eyes off. Not just the looks but the attitude and personals.
2006-08-06 11:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are looking for what you want and not what's being offered. Even if the guy isn't "your type" you'd be surprised what will happen if are willing to take a chance. =)
2006-08-06 11:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋