I just started to date with a guy. I met him 20days ago.
He was really interested in me and we started to date.
I wasn't a good girl friend through all my ex-relationship therefore,I wanted to be a really nice girl to my date whoever I am seeing. So,whenever we wanted to meet me, I was there and I did what he want.
Anyway, my point is, recently, about five days ago, I felt that he started to change. for example, after we met third time, I met my friend on the street and my friend asked me "Is he your boyfriend? I just smiled. later, my date asked me "Why did you just smied? and he also said "I have no problem to be your boyfriend."
However, 4days ago, when I tried to talk about our situation of relationship, he said, "I don't say to my friends that you are my girl friend. :"You are the only girl I am seeing right now but girlfriend and boyfriend are just "word".
My friends guessed that he started to take seeing me for granted.
I agreed.what can I do for this relationship?
2006-08-06 11:35:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's been nearly 3 weeks. You are in the phase of getting to know one another. Take things very, very slow. Enjoy each others company. Have fun. Don't talk about where this is going, or exclusivity just yet. You need to remember that you are both individuals, and you will find things that you like and dislike about each other. I would just be friends right now. Especially if he spoke about the "girlfriend word" thing. That's kind of a mixed message, isn't it? I mean, you're not his "girlfriend", but you're the only girl he's seeing. Don't put too much pressure on yourself, him, or your interactions just yet. Be happy with yourself, and when he sees that, he will either be attracted to that within a love, or friendship type circle. Either way, it's always nice to have friends.
2006-08-06 11:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are always available when he calls and you never know what you want to do on a date, perhaps he is afraid you have no life of your own.
Even if you don't know where to go in NYC, because you are new, there must be things you like to do. For example, if you like to dance, skate or walk ask him if the next time you date could you do one of those things. Or check with folks in your neighborhood and ask what they do near-by for fun.
People are drawn to others who have busy lives because they are usually more interesting. And tell him it's way too soon to decide if he is your boyfriend. And never try to talk about your situation, just live it. Words mean little. Actions count.
2006-08-06 18:51:41 · answer #2 · answered by Shintz62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him what does he think of you. Does he see a relationship or what because you need to know where he stands with you.
2006-08-06 18:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by 2cute4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well leave him 4 a while & see what happens
if u wanna talk IM me
2006-08-06 18:42:40 · answer #4 · answered by hrh_medo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit while you can you mess up already!he probably dosen't want a relationship right now!
2006-08-06 18:48:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing you already runined it by not telling your friend he was your boyfriend, you were really rude and selfish. i hate you
2006-08-06 18:41:15 · answer #6 · answered by jackpack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue on and keep working on it.
2006-08-06 18:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it
2006-08-06 18:39:55 · answer #8 · answered by imnotbtami 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋