2006-08-06 11:30:38 · 11 answers · asked by murder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you're honestly asking this question then you're not ready to have sex and if you're still a virgin which it sounds like you are dont you think 3 months is a little too soon? Just ask yourself this one question is this something i want to do or am i doing it just because others want me to if its the 1st then go for it but if you dont think you're ready then dont have sex just because if he really does love you he will wait until you are truely ready and if he leaves you because you wont have sex with him then he doesnt really love you.
2006-08-06 11:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by JWO teddy bear 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you don't feel it's right, then don't. And if you even have to ask this question then you obviously feel uncomfortable with the idea. If he truly loves you, he will respect your decision that you're not ready for this step. Any other response shows that he's not in the relationship for mutual happiness but only his own.
2006-08-06 11:40:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you he will respect whatever you do. Don't let him pressure you into doing something that you may regret later down the road. Remember you are giving up yourself---a part of your mind will always focus upon this.
2006-08-06 11:38:01 · answer #3 · answered by first_thess_516 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it...yet. Once he and you have committed yourselves to one another in a marriage relationship, go for it with. You two are not really committed to one another legally until you are married and NOT under false pretenses. There really is no harm in waiting.
2006-08-06 11:42:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jack 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to chill until you're ready. my bf and i have been dating for like a year and a half, and he's still waiting.
just tell him its a major step, with huge consequences, and you're not ready yet, but you do love him. if he's not patient enough, and good enough to respect that, than your choice will be even easier
2006-08-06 11:38:20 · answer #5 · answered by al 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it just because he wants to. Wait until you are ready, if he loves you, he will wait
2006-08-06 11:34:55 · answer #6 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he truly does love you then he should wait until you are comfortable. If he can not wait then he is lying about loving you.
Always follow your heart.
2006-08-06 11:38:51 · answer #7 · answered by heycanwedoda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up if you feel its right, on that point you cannot take anyones suggestions or opinions in to play, you have to do what your heart honestly tells you to do!!
2006-08-06 11:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait until YOU"RE ready
2006-08-06 12:04:38 · answer #9 · answered by bad guppy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be true to YOURSELF first...pleasing him is secondary.
2006-08-06 11:35:19 · answer #10 · answered by too_hot4words 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋