I really like this girl and when i tell her how I feel about her she says she doesn't believe me because other lads have said it to her before and she was let down! how can I prove to her that I really care about her and how I feel for her?!?!
2006-08-06 11:29:59 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust I've been in her shoes. Its hard to let someone in when you've been hurt so bad by stupid idoits in the pass. Give it time and keep telling her and showing her in all your ways that do u care and she'll in time come around. Sometimes things like that just take time. GOOD LUCK! Hope this helps a little.
2006-08-06 11:35:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sondra 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude, shes probably heard it all before.It happens when you've been hurt or disillusioned by someone you care for. After a while the words don't mean anything. Its not personal. The proof is in the pudding. If you want a girl to "believe" you really care she must feel it. You don't have to impress her with expensive gifts. Its all the little things you do that are noticed. Although its wonderful to be showered with beautiful gifts most women are unimpressed by them. They look for more important things that count. Like being thoughtful and caring. When a gesture comes from the heart it can move mountains .
Be sincere, be thoughtful ....be yourself, you'll win her heart.
2006-08-06 18:41:47 · answer #2 · answered by eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to learn how to trust again if she wants to be happy. Instead of telling her all the time you have to show her. She will believe your actions way more than she will believe just words. It will probably take time but if you like her alot maybe it will be worth waiting for. Give her some space also dont keep pressuring her . Good Luck.
2006-08-06 18:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's going to have to believe it herself. No matter what you do or say if she done had her heartbroken before she is scared you are going to do the same thing so don't promise her nothing just tell her to trust you. A promise means a lot to a person a just by breaking that promise will hurt her for life so don't promise her nothing just tell her to trust you. And email me and let me know what happen.
2006-08-06 18:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by kita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be pushy, time will tell the truth. Just smile and tell her that you will make a believer out of her some day. Maybe not today or tomorrow, but in the long run, she will see. THEN PROVE IT!
2006-08-06 18:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time let her know you arent going to let her down like the others. Buy her flowers. Take her out. Buy her cards and write how you feel in them. write her along heart felt letter. Dont give up though she sounds like she is worth the wait. U will get there in the end.
2006-08-06 18:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Laura C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to give you a chance! She cant judge you just because she has had bad experiences with other guys! Do something special for her. Find out what she likes, or where she likes to go, and take her out, or get her something special just to show her she is special! Good luck!
2006-08-06 18:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by autumn wolf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since she has been hurt before, only time will be able to help you at this point. just be there for her.,. be her friend and continue to SHOW her how much you care. go a little outta your way to help her.,.. leave her a flower once in a while. more than words my friend more than words.. Hope this helps you a little
2006-08-06 18:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when shes chiiling out watching the tele or reading a book,slip your hand downstrairs and give her a good seeing too,no sex tho,just manual work.then shel know and u can get the ride on tap from then on.ok
2006-08-06 18:35:16 · answer #9 · answered by romancer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions .. words wont make a difference.. show her your different than other guys before you..you may have to face the fact that she also may not be attracted to you in that way and thats her nice way of letting you know she wants to stay friends..let her know that you can still stay friends..sometimes friendship has to be first before romance
2006-08-06 18:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by jean h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋