Why is guys checking out porn, strippers, wet t shirts comps etc seen as sexist?

Question

Why is guys checking out porn, strippers, wet t shirts comps etc seen as sexist?


Does it not occur to anyone that guys who like having say the sexy pin up calander at work would have no problem with the girls having a Mr fireman topless guy clander as well.

Likwise that guys would have no probs with their girlie mates seeing male strippers?

When girls checking out sexy singers, rock stars, firemen, boys in general is not...


And why on earth do folk assume that just as a guy fancies or likes a girl or likes seeing them naked, that the guy does not want to get to know the rest of them?

Where on earth did crap like if a guy likes girls , is on the pull or likes seeing naked girls he sees them as pieces of meat but girls fancing guys is considered different...

What guy sees girls as meat ie leg of lamb, bacon, sausages...


As I don't know anyone who checks out a girl & thinks of BBQ food?


Surely sexisim is unfair treatment ie thinking girls cant be mechanics

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OK Adam instead of being a pedantic sad git why not give me a break on the fast typing/typos and look at the content and points raised.

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To the not so bright here the point is saying

Why is guys being interested sexaully in the opposite sex seen as sexist in itself.

Ie saying guys only see women as sex objects as they fancy them.

And assuming the guys would have a problem with girls doing exactly the same... ie guys thinking if we have a sexy swim suit girl calanda on the wall its fair for the girls to have a sexy dude calanda.

And that its only sexist if unfair ie the guys only get their calander or say the girls can't do certain jobs as girlsl

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Veronica and those like her.

I and probably most guys would want you to see your male Mr fireman but naked tow and some of the places I have been to have exotic dancers of both sexes go all the way and make the act comic as well.

So fair is fair... thats fine... As for expolited ... Get real... I and many guys would love a job like that where we can get lots off attention, dates, phone numbers and hot girls who thought of us as sex on legs.

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And its lots of fun for us guys to see you girls get all excited about a male stripper... if its fair it makes it fun for all

Maura... you did not get the point that just as a guy notices you have boobs and so are infact female and attractive in no way stops him trying to get to notice the rest of you... its just they have to ask you first.

And er many guys aint into fake women like you describe either... natural ones like in the seventies are far hotter then fake boobs etc now... Plus the production values and fantasy element was better then too.

Answer 1

cos it is.

it's also exploitive, but who is being exploited.

Personally, i don't want a mr. fireman topless, i want a mr fireman butt naked.......have'nt seen any. i'd like to see as many butt naked men than there are women. male strippers are usually dull and well covered, and only want women to put money down their pouches. very much a turn off for me. i feel exploited. i also assume they don't have a brain cell between their ears, or maybe they keep them in their nuts.

Answer 2

It's great that men fancy women, but we like to be appreciated as whole human beings, not just a pair of **** etc.

I think that women dislike porn/prostitutes etc because it divorces sex from love and parenthood. Although we've had reliable contraceptives for the last few decades, our brains are still wired to associate sex with pregnancy and babies, so men who don't respect that link are not to be trusted.

There's also the issue nowadays of difference between porn women (orange skin, yellow hair, tiny body, huge breasts, no hips, inflated lips) and the rest of womanhood in all different shapes, sizes and colours. Porn women remind me of the tribe in Thailand where they decided that long necks are elegant, so they put rings on the women's neck until they look like giraffes.

Answer 3

Well the girls are more worried about their boyfriends/husbands leaving them or whatever for someone else, and this is just a sign that they can't please their man without the help of these strippers yet guys aren't as worried about these firemen dudes or the singer guys or whatever because they know that they won't really leave them for a fireman and stuff.

Answer 4

totally agree. not a problem at all been to see many a male stripper etc. sexism is a much more serious business and men are just a vunerable as women.

Answer 5

i dont think its sexist..its just human nature.. sorry to say this but women complainin bout them things just have nothin better to do or wish they looked like the calender girls etc jealousy oh and im a girl!!

Answer 6

it would be nice to even understand half of what your asking?! But with an education like you seem to have no wonder your guys are checking out porn and stuff hell they probally cant stand you!

Answer 7

You said it , I can't answer this just some guys are whipped.

Answer 8

dude you need to work on your sentence structuring
but i get the picture
kind of
i agree that this is unfair to men
i dont know what to say
......................sorry
be optimistic ..................and be healthy

Answer 9

Good point ;-)

Answer 10

what are you talking about?