he dont call me anymore but expects me to call him we have fun when were together. he do not disrespect me he loves play fighting with me and loves to cuddle. he always looks me in the eyes during sex an talks to me after an duringi love him an told him but i dont think he beilives me.he knows all of my close friends i know his ive meet his family. all our friends an family members want us to be together. at the first thought of losin me he calls
2006-08-06 11:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by beverlyclarke1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have been going out for a year we broke up because of one off my friends lies but we have been talkin 2 each other for 2 years going on to three
2006-08-06 11:29:08 · update #1
I think sometimes, relationships turn out to be more of a "convenience" thing, than a "relationship" thing. I mean, when it was convenient for him, he would call you. There is some reason that he is not. Despite all that you said about your time spent together, there is an underlying reason. It sounds as if he's losing interest. It sounds as if he's just not that in to you anymore. Any relationship that you have to "beg" for, is one NOT worth having. A man who is "into" you, will do everything within his power to make sure you know that he is "into" you. Sometimes, people have different expectations on others, and when they don't live up to them, we're awfully disappointed in them. Being part of his circle of friends and family is great, but it will only cause awkwardness, when he shows up with someone else. I would take some time away from him. Try very hard to not call, and not be available for a while. You need to spend some time alone, and reconnect with yourself. Too many people are depending upon others for their own happiness, so you need to find it within yourself. He may seem sincere when it the situation calls for it, but how are his actions afterwards? It sounds like you are very much in love, and he is saying and doing what he has to, to satisfy himself. Respect yourself, and take control of your life. Hang out with friends and family. If he truly wants to be with you, let him show it, and prove it. Best wishes to you.
2006-08-06 11:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you guys teenager cuz that's what you sound like and that's all U guys did is have intercourse that 's what you what in life you need to look at the long term issue and not short term cuz you are going to end up sitting in the house with 4 kids and wounder are assuming where he's at and when you see him you are going to fall back in his foot step's, if he's not calling you and you calling him., he's just going with the flow of things and is not a relationship type he's just a call away for sex. wear your condom's cuz everyone has a booty call.
2006-08-06 18:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by clare26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOOTY CALL. yes. you are seeing what you want to see, you've built up this fantasy based on the sex you two have together. dump this guy. YOU DESERVE BETTER.
2006-08-06 18:31:28 · answer #3 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
2006-08-06 18:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋