does he even like me?

Question

Hi. I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now. He is very sweet to me when we are together. But, he never calls me on the phone just to talk. It is always to plan something. We don't hold hands in public. Only in the movie theaters or when no one else is around. We haven't even kissed yet. What do I do. He is the sweetest boy I have ever meet. He is even funny. But is he into me?

Answer 1

He doesn't like to talk on the phone unless he has a specific purpose for calling you. That's fine. Don't wait for him to hold your hand ~ take his.

Answer 2

I'm no expert, but it is possible that your boyfriend is just a little nervous. Some guys just don't like talking on the phone; they may not know what to say, or just plain don't like talking on the phone. (Girls are much more social than guys, you know.)

On the holding hands in public part: he may not like showing affection in public. This is normal for lots of people, especially if one is nervous.

I'm sure he likes you; he's with you, isn't he?!

I'd suggest making sure you tell him he's a great boyfriend; a compliment can go a long way. Reassure him that you care for him. Sometimes even the sweetest guys get shy. :)

You could always try talking to him (in private where he feels comfortable and not confronted) about your feelings. He may not even realize how you are feeling.

Good luck Hun!

Answer 3

Here the deal sweetie. I will say he could. You seem to be focusing your relationship on gestures which is understandable. BUT WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT THERE COULD BE A LOGICAL ANSWER TO EACH OF YOUR COMPLAINTS. Maybe he is not a phone person most men aren't; maybe he not hands on or touchy feely; maybe the physical aspect of a relationship is not that important to himor he is a virgin and doesn't want to move fast and have to tell you. There could be a numbe r of things going on but stress. If he does great, if not then do better I sure you can. Just don't lose sleep over it.

Answer 4

By the sounds of it, he is. He's just taking his time maybe. Just relax and enjoy cuz most guys aren't like that! Look at it this way, would you rather have him be all over you and treat you poorly or have him treat you the way he is now and gradually get into the more physical stuff? Sure you're not getting as much as you'd probably like at the moment but I'm sure you will. Just be patient!

Answer 5

maybe. :| i dont know him or u so i cant tell but i can help :)
why dont u hold his hand in public and kiss him or give him a call to talk about something why is it that boys have to start all the time.

Answer 6

Believe it or not, some boys are very mature for their age and do not engage in physical intimacies before marriage (these are the ones that make EXCELLENT husbands). He sounds like a great guy. Don't push him into phsyical relations with you. Save that for marriage. The object is to get to know your personality before marriage, get to know your body and more of you AFTER marriage.

Answer 7

Yes i think he likes you and i think at you need to tell him when you want him to call, show affection, and love you more, because some guys are just slow. Or he could be shy.

Answer 8

Not sure on this one.......2 mths is long enough to kiss I reckon.......He may rather talk to you in person (face to face) than on the phone..... :)

Answer 9

Maybe he is just shy and embarrased. But I think he does like you, yes.

Answer 10

I'm sure he likes you maybe he is just nervous or he just has different way he does things.