i went out with this boy but broke up with him because i was afraid my mom will find out. i still love him but if my mom finds out im going to be in trouble.
2006-08-06 11:19:00 · 13 answers · asked by out of controll 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i go out wit guys and hope my mom doesnt find out. But wht i do is ask him to keep our relationship a secret. tell him why u want to keep it a secret and he'll understand. if he doesnt wanna keep it a secret then he doesnt really luv u.
2006-08-06 11:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by jesald15 1 · 8⤊ 7⤋
I am not sure why your mom does not approve of this boy as a mom of 5 kids I do know that if my children have boyfriends/girlfriends and for what ever reason and I found that my child was doing this yes I would get angry.has your mom told you why she don't want you spending time with this boy. if so then you have to remember your mom was once your age and knows only to well. But trust me don't go behind your moms back boyfriends will come and go but family is family for life.
2006-08-06 18:26:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs Magoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Lord we have the same problem cept im a guy.
moms can be a real pain sometimes. you've done the best thing. i've broken up with two girlfriends so far just to stay out of trouble with my mom. i say just wait until 18. thats what i have to do.
it sucks but hey having a mad mom sucks even more.
2006-08-06 18:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by bartathalon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are afraid of what your mom will think it might be wise to talk to your mom about what her expectations for you are. If you are not on common ground perhaps you can find some and open the discussion. Relationships and love should be growth experiences, not furtive and shameful. Open up to your family if you can. Use integrity in what you do and you will reap the rewards.
2006-08-06 18:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hormones at your age play a big part in it. i wouldn't wish being a teenage girl on anyone. it's a hard process to endure. your doing good and i wish you luck. does your mom not like u to date at all? or is there something else wrong with him why she doesn't like him? mostly i never listened to my mom but realize she was right a lot of the time even if i couldn't see it then. just realize he isn't worth jepordizing your mothers trust either. she'll be here way after he's gone. and this feeling is one of many to come. it's teenage love. enjoy every minute of it
2006-08-06 18:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by liketoplay420 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about your mommy finding out you must be around 15 or 16. So you really don't know what love is, so finish school, go to college, don't get pregnant, stay off drugs and listen to your MOTHER..................signed cynical
2006-08-06 18:26:18 · answer #6 · answered by itsnotmyfault 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your mom and tell her how you feel about him and then maybe she will understand. if she still disagree's with the whole thing than i would just do it anyway how is she going to find out aobut it?
2006-08-06 18:26:21 · answer #7 · answered by lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a chat with you r mom, let him meet her , most moms like to be introduced to a guy you like, not just to hear this is my boyfriend, understand ,she wants to approve of him, give it a try. goodluck
2006-08-06 18:23:50 · answer #8 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still should be able to stay in contact in some way. and maybe one day soon you can start seeing him again once yr parents dont mind
2006-08-06 18:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you be in trouble, if she knows she might understand everything and allow it.
2006-08-06 18:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Topher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-06 18:23:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋