Question for the girls:?

Question

Sometimes I enjoy giving my boyfriend a lap dance...like I'll put on my tightest jeans and then I'll rub all over his lap and kiss his neck and ears.

I don't want to lose my virginity yet but it helps him feel better if you know what I mean and then he does not bug me about it. I am 15.

It's fun for me to grind on him too. Does anyone else do this?

Answer 1

i don't have much self control personally so i wouldn't suggest it. if you want to stay a virgin it might not be the best idea. is he one too? if so it might be okay as long as you both know you aren't going any further. but it may lead to more. just lots for you to think about. and never mind the godly lady above me. she is a whack job and ur not a trollop. you seem responsible and i respect that. nothing wrong with getting some advice. goo luck

Answer 2

If you really care about remaining a virgin, I would hold off on the lap dances. What you are doing sounds harmless, but it is an intimate act and will lead to others you may not be ready for at fifteen. Don't put yourself in a situation where you lose control.

Answer 3

You only 15, however your working up to getting raped. It really sounds like you need to take a cold shower.
After you lose your virginity then what. If this relationship doesn't work out.. what will you tell the next guy, when your doing a lap dance for him. Whatever!! Your parents need to watch you close. Your asking for trouble.

Answer 4

OK, how old is your bf? I won't tell you your way to young to be doing that sort of thing (because goodness know how gutterish my mind was back at 15, even they I never physically did anything) but please, make sure your bf is worthy of that attention. Don't let him use you as a way to get off, and ignore the rest of what comes with having a relationship. I had my first serious bf when I was 15 and I let things go a little too fast and one day I realized I felt dirty and used, knowing he didn't really care all that much about me but more that I'd make out with him and let him grope me. So please, make sure he's worth it but if you want my advice, wait. Save yourself for someone who you know without a shadow of a doubt is worth it. Wait until you've found a guy you would marry even if you couldn't have sex with him. Then give him all you've got ;)

Answer 5

You are waaaayyy too young to be engaging in any such behavior. This kind of intimiate behavior should only be done with your HUSBAND. You say you are a virgin, but you act like a complete and utter trollup! Stop causing this man to sin by exciting lustful thoughts.

Answer 6

Sorry but know I mean I'm younger than you and have been father than you but eventally than lap dance will turn into something more so get ready

Answer 7

BAD MOVE, you are teasing the hell out of him and that DOES NOT make him happy, one day he will be so aroused he will become overly aggressive in a sexual way, you are not doing him or yourself any favors. When your 18 and doing lap dances you better start yanking his chain, you know what I mean

Answer 8

No i've wasn't sure if i wanted to loose mine at first but once i did it, it was the greatest thing when i lost it to my husband and it was the greatest feeling to. i still do give lap dances also and its really fun i have fun both ways

Answer 9

sounds like fun I just wish i had thought of that before

Answer 10

to me that is a little young to be doing this especially if you havn't lost your verginitly yet...i do do this everyonce in a while though...but i am older than you and have lost my verginity.

Answer 11

swettie thats dangerous because one day he may not be able to control his hormones and do you in.