I have been talking to this guy for 3 months now and we have not met in person. My cousin introduced us we met once at her wedding(my cousin) but I do not remember him. I really like him but I do not know how he feels about me and I really want to know but I do not know how to bring it up, becoz I am afraid that he will think that I am clingy or something like that. Ususlly I just ask but becoz I like him thats the only problem. So should I should I not ask him.
2006-08-06 10:58:18 · 6 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, if you have a relationship with them in other ways. As long as you are sure about the person you perceive.
No don't ask because you don't sound certain.
2006-08-06 11:04:25 · answer #1 · answered by Chris cc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, I think its possible to be in love with the idea of someone. This bloke made no impression on you when you met. And 3 months isn't long enough to get to know someone.
I know that's not what you want to hear, but I'd say don't do anything for now. Give it a while longer and arrange to meet up a few times first.
A friend of mine met her husband over the Internet and they are very happily married. But I also know far more people who have had disastrous relationships with people they met on the Internet. So don't rush into anything.
2006-08-06 11:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by pea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether it's love or not there is no reason for you to sit and feel uneasy over this.
Do not bring up the *L* word, just tell him that you really enjoy his company and would he like to step it up a bit. If he says yes then go for it.
If he says no, well we will all be here to catch you. Good luck!
2006-08-09 21:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say ask him how he feels....and i think it is possible to be in love with someone without meeting them...i say ya'll need to maybe set sumthin up so ya'll can meet
2006-08-06 11:15:56 · answer #4 · answered by Taquila (Celtics Fan) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww, i feel your pain man!
Urm, ithink that you should ask Him how He feels and hear what he has to say....then tell him about how your feeling....maybe he likes a women to take control sometimes..
2006-08-06 11:03:48 · answer #5 · answered by daniel4joyce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not the worst thing is regret, if you try and he says no. you can hold your head up and say his loss. goodluck
2006-08-06 11:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by sonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋