Where can a guy like me meet single females?

Question

I don't drink, so I don't go to bars.

I don't like to dance and I don't like competing with other horny guys, so clubs are out.

I'm 22 years old and my career isn't the best for meeting women my age or women that aren't married with three kids.

I don't attend school so that's out of the question.

From what I can gather, my only chances are to meet someone out in public (mall, coffee shop), some type of singles place, online, or church.

I have heard girls don't like being approached in public unless they show interest first which sadly hasn't happened to me (or I just didn't noticed). If I ever did approach a girl in public, I wouldn't make a typical "you're hot" comment.

Can anyone help me? If you're currently in a relationship, where did you meet your BF/GF?

Answer 1

Try volunteering and meet girls with similar interests.

Get a little dog and go to a park. Even borrow a dog if you must.

You can take night classes at a local junior college for fun (dating opportunities) only.

Answer 2

well learn to dance no one sad you had to drink if you go to a bar . but that isn't the greatest way to meet a nice girl . if you see a girl any were it is okay to say hello and try to start a conversation with her if she doesn't seam interested then let it go but if you frequent coffee shops the girl behind the counter . she might like you feel it out . and if you like her flirt with her say you know I only come here to see your pretty face . but the drinks are god as well if she blushes then you know she is infatuated with you as well. keep coming in for a few Weeks and continue flirting find some god come backs if she flirts back. then you know she is getting interested in you. now if she asks you were do you work now that is a sign that she wants to know about you and that is you opportunity to make your move you come back with well how about you let me take you out for dinner and I will let you ask me all the questions you would like . if she is really interested in you she will except if she isn't she will come up with a excuse now you never gave a time so any excuse is just a way out from dating you. there are a lot of places you can go to meet Lady's and at work or party's book stores ,shopping, bus . be out there beaches parks

Answer 3

Stop trying so hard to find a partner. Just live your life and things will just happen. As for locations to meet single ppl, just go about doing the things you like doing, like biking at local park, camping, play hockey or football, etc. At least in those surroundings you could meet someone with similar interests.

Answer 4

I met my fiance through a new friend. I believe that you will meet that special woman when the time is right. And most likely you won't meet her through any of the usual venues.
The more desperate you seem, the least likely you will meet someone. Just wait and be patient. You will find her. But you can't meet women here. This is not a pick-up joint Dude!

Answer 5

Stop crying and do something about
"Yourself" instead of feeling sorry for yourself and wasting away your life staying home in your room slinking and doing nothing about it.I don't drink and I met my sweetheart in a club and he didn't drink also,so whats the problem.No drinking don't make you less a man..Most woman don't really care for a drinker.They just want a nice fellow who flatters them once in a while,tells them your looking very nice in that outfit,once a week maybe bring her flowers,a little I appreciate you card or small inexpensive gift and take us out to anywhere.It don't have to be a showie place because all we want is to be loved and appreciated the same as you.But I don't think its all that with YOU.I think you lack confidence in you.Ever think of cosmetic surgery?I know a lot of men had it and felt so good about themselves afterwards.It helps to build confidence.Why should it just us girls doing it to look good for a man.Think about what I said and I wish you the very best.And before I forget,it wouldn't hurt you to learn to dance.I did when I was your age by watching TV.Its fun once you get the hang of it.Wishing you the very best!! Good Luck!!

Answer 6

Wow! who told you that women don't like to be approached!?? That is so not true. Especially if your charming, witty and have something on your mind to say thats not vulgar.

You can always meet women at Starbucks or a local coffee house! They are ALWAYS there... Libraries are good too. Parks. Gyms. You can even meet women at grocery stores, friend's houses, post offices, and just about anywhere!

Answer 7

The gym im at the gym 2 days a week maybe 3 / basketball court
girls like to watch the boys play ball

Answer 8

I would just live my life the way you are doing because that is the way you will meet a girl that has the same interest that you have. It will fall into place before you know what happened. Just keep smiling and she will show up. Don't act discouraged.

Answer 9

Try Home Depot or Lowe's...I think any woman that comes in those stores alone must be single, ridiculously bored or has a sorry, lazy husband that won't fix up the house so she has to do it on her own. BTW, I met my husband in high school 7 years ago but I don't recommend that to everyone either, sometimes you think you know people and you really don't.

Answer 10

Church! That is where I met my husband. I was moving, and some friends of mine were helping me move, and they invited this other guy (my husband) to come help. We started seeing each other at church and went out for lunch a couple of times just as friends, and we just sort of hit it off, and the rest is history. Get involved in a Bible study and just get to know people. Get involved in the church, and help people, and just be yourself. And Lord willing, He will open up the doors for you to meet the woman of your dreams! Blessings to ya! I know sometimes being single can be so hard....and really lonely at times. But just trust in the Lord and He will work things out. I found that when I stopped focusing on myself and what I wanted, and started looking at how I could help other people, I was much more satisfied and things started just falling in to place.