I find men to be pretty useless nowadays. They don't seem to know how to take charge, lead, or be in control. They seem to have trouble initiating dates as if they are waiting to be asked out. What has happened to the old fashioned take charge man who takes care of his woman and plans a date instead of expecting a woman to ask him out.
2006-08-06 10:46:31 · 12 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I might add that I am no women's libber myself.
2006-08-06 10:46:58 · update #1
To every action there is a reaction, a law of physics that rules our lives. No wonder that men became "wimps" because of constant criticism from "libbers". Pity !!!
2006-08-06 10:53:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are inundated with widely different requirements.
They are told it is not cool to be smart (our President cannot pronounce
Nuclear).
They discover that "bad boys" get all the girls.
However, no parent is going to tell their kid to be a bad boy.
Society is happy to call a man sexist if he notices any difference
between men and women, but wouldn't dream of calling a woman
sexist under the same circumstance.
As the world gets smaller and smaller, social skills become more
important and the ability to be physical on your own becomes less
important. Men are being gradually marginalized.
The big proof of this is that the majority of people graduating from
colleges are female and their numbers are increasing.
I'm afraid that the "take charge" kind of guy you're looking for maybe
in a gang somewhere with a mean lifespan of 22 years.
2006-08-06 10:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't you are in trouble. Men don't have to take care of women any more they can take care of themselves. Besides most men aren't wimps, they don't have the moral ethics behind going to school, getting a job, moving out and getting married. Plenty of really bad marriages like that, You are fortunate that women such as myself have saved women from being locked in the home and beaten by their husbands and boyfriends. We are now free to work, to own property, to drive, and yes even to vote. Ck your history before you blame womens lib, we used to be treated like slaves and had no rights.
2006-08-06 10:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of its the consequence of countless issues. these days, there is distinctive glorification of the female guy -eg: Will&Grace, et al. Its been a protracted time in view that there became right into a John Wayne charachter for adult males to emulate. If a guy does not have the intestinal fortitude to be the guy that he became into made to be of his own accord, he can truthfully slip into in simple terms following those types he sees on television of controlable adult males, domesticated adult males. adult males that are no longer adult males in any respect. extra, i think of this impression can impression a adult males attitude of himself. as a result, he's familiar with he's a pansy and is as a result hesitant to have self belief that he must be guy sufficient for a captivating woman. additionally, adult males here approximately women persons wanting this mushy, metro guy and that they get confussed approximately issues usually no longer understanding that they are in a position to be a guy on a similar time as additionally reducing their toe nails, combing their hair and leaving the actual noises interior the locker room. maximum adult males tend to be all or no longer something. we tend to be lacking interior the potential to discover the nicely suited ballance between extremes. i'm particular you have chanced on adult males at the two ends of the spectrum. this isn't any longer situation-free looking one human beings that is familiar with a woman's appreciation for the two aspects of that coin. Then there is the strengthening of the female function in society. this would create some confusion for a weaker guy. If she is physically powerful and self-sufficient, she would be seen as no longer wanting a guy or wanting a guy or wanting some uber-guy. a guy would think of that a woman that sturdy is able to letting her own desires be known and choosing her own guy. yet nomatter how sturdy a woman's presence could be, she nonetheless has an inate choose to be pursued with the aid of a eye-catching guy. a no longer situation-free situation for you sturdy, captivating women. If i will grant any suggestion, i'd propose you supply him the possibility as an occasion his masculinity. Ask him a query a guy ought to comprehend or help in doing some thing. then you certainly are making touch, he feels shown and you get some face time so he realizes you're in basic terms a woman searching for a boy. -John
2016-09-28 23:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah things have been turned upside down and women are becoming more and more equal. Not that they haven't always been in my eyes. Maybe the guy you want to date is just shy.
2006-08-06 10:59:13 · answer #5 · answered by Ronnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are out there but not many men would go out with you if you still say now a days.
2006-08-06 10:51:47 · answer #6 · answered by listenup_pinhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. As women have grown in their independence and politcal correctness has taken over, men themselves have become more feminine.
2006-08-06 10:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by Dancing Danny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a take charge kinda guy, especially in bed.
2006-08-06 10:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same here. I love to be told what to do when I'm naked with my bf. I love a little Domination / submission play now and then :)
2006-08-06 10:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by All gods are useless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I like when I guy can just take me out without asking "where you want to go". Let's just go, surprise me. lol
2006-08-06 10:55:37 · answer #10 · answered by dreamee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋