ok im alittle torn.. mostly stuborn! this guy i have been on and off with over the last few months is making me feel so confused.. one minute he is really into me and things are great between us.. BUT then there are times he just doesnt wanna talk to me... i mean its weird because he was the one who chased me.. now i really like him we both admitted our feelings... but now he hardly talks to me unless i talk to him first.. its getting on my nerves..we used to always text (sms) but hardly ever these days.. should i text him or not waste my time with him... please help if you can! xxx
2006-08-06 10:42:51 · 16 answers · asked by cinderella 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey there,
there are too many fish in the sea to put up with that kind of stuff. Ditch him and make yourself available immediatley. He may come around afterward, but don't fall for his tricks again. If he treated you bad once, he'll do it again. People don't change. We are the way we are and that's why we have to find someone that will love us and respect us for who we are. :)
2006-08-06 10:47:22 · answer #1 · answered by ladycashmere79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the end of something good. The best bet here is just to let him be for like a month. See how many times he calls and your "not there to answer." Or if you dont have the guts for this(no offense) catch him when hes alone and ask him whats going on and go from there. If you cant get him the first time keep trying.
2006-08-06 17:53:07 · answer #2 · answered by broly3k8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make yourself a little more unavailable, he will come after you again, i'm not talking about an hour a day either. Get busy making plans with other people and doing different things without him. This is important in all relationships to maintain our individuality. Let him make up his mind before you make yourself crazy. Don't ask just drift away and see what happens. If he don't come around then he could be there just for sex, not everyone is truthful
2006-08-06 17:48:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is a little tricky.......I would say text him...then sit back..relax and see if he texts you back.......remember it may be he is just really busy NOT necessarily being a snob or not interested in you anymore......wait a couple of days( I can't talk coz I can't normally wait for a couple of days myself ) This is tricky because you don't want to seem desperate but at the same time you have got to let him know you are still into him..........it can be a VERY thin line between the two!....Best of luck to you and let me know how it all turns out...........hope this helps.........Also he should make up his mind.....if not forget him He is NO GOOD.......
2006-08-06 17:52:25 · answer #4 · answered by BeO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing you should know is guys are crazy cause they are always giving mixed massages and thats what this guy is giving you, itd worth it in some cases and in some its not it reminds me of how me and my x boyfrienduse to act for a while untill we just didnt talk at all.This guy just waiting for you to make all the moves i say just dont send him a text or attemp to call him wait for him to call you trust me he'll give in sooner or later.
2006-08-06 17:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not sure about his feelings for you. @ tha time he was(or he thought he was). he could have a relationship w/ some1 else & he wants 2 b w/ u wen things go wrong there. wen hes free & there arent gonna b any interuptions, tlk 2 him &find out wats goin on his head. tell him ur confused about ur relationship & he needs 2 b clear about tha kinda relationship he wants w/ u. or u can jus act tha same way he does & c how he reacts?
2006-08-06 17:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by grlnxtdr_544 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has lost interest, he is still looking for other women. More than likely he is just hanging on to you and telling you the things you need to hear to stick around long enough so he is not alone.
try this one stop giving him the booty and see whats happens.
2006-08-06 17:49:37 · answer #7 · answered by knollberg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not waste your time! he is giving you the cold shoulder and it sounds like he will keep you on his list of girls so if they are not available there is always you! you are better then that let the man chase you and want you then you wont be confused
2006-08-06 17:48:40 · answer #8 · answered by ljjmollie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its the fox and the hound once u caught something the chase is over and u feel the need to chase something else sounds like hes a dog to me......
2006-08-06 17:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by jbgolf1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time with him darling. Stop talking to him he just might come back to you. But he isn't worth he is playing you
2006-08-06 17:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by rdnckfrfghtr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋