She has been dating a married man for 2 years and she lost her virginity to him. Recently she found some txt messages on her phone sent to her by mistake by her lover which was meant for his ex. She was so angry that she started seeing this other guy,he's an ex druggie racist,she said she doesnt love him but is just using him to get back at her lover. At work a couple of months ago she met this other guy but he already has a girlfriend but she is just having sex with him. I told her she needs to sort herself out but she said she's in love with the married one. The ex druggie seems a bit like a psychopath and if he finds out about the other guys god help her(and them)What advice can you give me to give her?
2006-08-06 10:37:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's good at getting herself into scrapes by the sound of it. That's if she's telling you the truth. She may well be attention seeking.
However, if she's telling you the truth, you need to give some sound advice. Tell her to leave all three relationships. First leave the drug abuser. She's risking HIV infection and a variety of other nasty blood diseases by sleeping with him. A big price to pay for momentary revenge. Then she needs to leave the married man. He is using her and she is risking her emotional health by debasing herself by allowing him to use her on the side. He probably wouldn't even care if he knew she was with the drug abuser. Finally she must leave the man she met at work. He is similarly using her.
All of her relationships are abusive and have nothing to do with love. But in the end, it's her choice.
2006-08-06 21:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stop before she either catches something or someone gets hurt by the racist druggie Ask her also if she is dating all three cause she is scared of being alone .
2006-08-06 10:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by stephy200125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, she particularly should not be to in contact a pair of infant. She would desire to be greater in contact approximately and STD. tell your pal to maintain her legs close, in the previous something undesirable occurs. If it did no longer already
2016-12-11 04:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by binford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a tart, she wants to sort herself out, before she catches something. You want to talk to her as a friend and get her to stop.
2006-08-06 10:45:05 · answer #4 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did she ask you for advice? if not, the problem is not yours. either get your nose out of her business or get over your jealous feelings and ask her where you can find a guy as well.
2006-08-06 10:49:36 · answer #5 · answered by nidan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is her name and how can I meet her?
2006-08-06 11:00:13 · answer #6 · answered by mcbws 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell me to coe over here - i'll make 3
2006-08-06 10:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur friend has issues.........she really needs to talk to someone professional.....how old is she neway?????
2006-08-06 10:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by badhair92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's dumb - she'll get what she deserves
2006-08-06 10:42:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg... i really dont know wat to say.... she ought to look 4 someone professional.... a psychologist?
2006-08-06 10:47:16 · answer #10 · answered by sadgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋