He fancied this girl for 4 yars before finally saying something - she didnt feel the same. Since then we got together. In the fiirst couple of months of our relationship he flrted with her by text and msn constantly, even to the point of asking her to video a strip for him. He told me about this when pressed, and I was quite hurt. He told me he'd stop. Understandably I've been a little paranoid about her since!
Last night she came to visit him. He's been told recently his mum's dying of cancer and needed a friend over, I live 200 miles away cause he's home from uni over the summer, so his best friend was there. She fell asleep in his bed. I told him if he slept there too I'd be pretty upset about it, as then the only thing he does with me but not with her is sex, relegating me to a **** buddy. I was very clear on this. He slept there anyway, claims he had nowhere else to go - the way i see it, he either didn't care about what I said, or thought i didn't mean it. What do I do?
2006-08-06 10:28:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop wasting time with this guy if he doesnt respect you now he never will as long as he gets away with things each time will get worse
2006-08-06 10:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not like the idea of other woman sleeping in my boyfriend bed at all. He should have sent her home and not let her stay over that wrong. My best friend is a guy about two month ago he asked me if he could spend the night over my house I told no way he's girlfriend would be pissed off it she found out he was hang over my house for the night. If you are mad at him that a good thing I would break up with. I'm sorry he's wrong.
2006-08-06 10:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by Peaches 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his butt. If he thinks he can get away with this what else is he going to try to pull and think he can get away with? Even if he was telling the truth about having no where else to go the "point of asking her to video a strip for him." was waaayyy over the top you should have dumped him then.
2006-08-06 13:10:13 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know what you need to do honey, but it sounds like you're looking for reassurance to trust your man & honestly I can't give that to you because the situation seems to be far beyond repair.
Go ahead & spare yourself any further heartache... ... You can do better & maybe this time your relationship should stay local. Long-distance relations are not for everyone
2006-08-06 11:25:08 · answer #4 · answered by NicNac 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry sweety but, I think you already know your own answer. You are being used. He loves this other girl. She hasn't made it clear to him that she doesn't like him. She's playing with him. However, while you are busy being his **** buddy ; you are missing out on some major fun! You're the one being hurt. I say you should pick yourself up and dust yourself off and find someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated! You sound too young and sweet to be wasting time with a sap like him! :)
2006-08-06 10:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by Chrystal Chantel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He obviously didn't take you seriously you have to get rid of him. Otherwise he'll keep it up till he's cheating on you. I would sleep outside, in a car, with the dog in the doghouse. But I wouldn't do something like that to nobody. He can't be faithful now, he never will be.
2006-08-06 10:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by Ronnie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sick Mom has nothing to do with it... That is terrible for him, but has nothing to do with his total lack of respect for you and your feelings. He thinks that because you tollerated the other inappropriate behavior that you will let this slide as well.... He's like a little kid testing you. Don't let yourself be made to look stupid, stand up for yourself. You both know that what he did was wrong, don't make excuses and don't continue to let him disrespect you.
2006-08-06 10:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by lnfinitelylnteresting 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really need to dump him. Seriously! He will keep doing things like this because you are letting him. Show him that you mean what you said and dump the jerk.
2006-08-06 10:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally dump him if he is going to do that. I would dump him althought I am miley cyrus
2006-08-06 10:40:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with your boyfriend's best friend, and then dump him in front of his family and friends.
2006-08-06 10:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by NïghtStalkër_666 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋