God I hate being single?

Question

I went to a wedding last night thinking I would find the one for me,my love, my future wife. I didn't push to find a date to go with me because of my co workers filling my mind with hope, that alot of people meet their wives at places like that. Every girl there seemed to have a guy with them. It's sad coming home to the same life and the only message on my answer machine at home was from my mother.(No offense Love you Mom!) But I always hope for more. I wish love wasn't so hard to find and keep. P.S. check out my art site on yahoo no prices just enjoy the art and music. Only thing I really have going for me right now. www.maestroart.net

Answer 1

I liked your artwork a great deal: more on that in a moment. I think you placed too much faith in the "where" and now you're feeling let down. What I mean is, you expected that wedding to be it for you, and when that didn't happen you felt understandably dejected. Yes, many people do discover a spark at weddings ( if movies can be believed), but it's not a guarantee. And just because she wasn't there doesn't mean she's not out there. Where you find her isn't so important; finding her is.
Next topic: What media do you work in? Very nice work, especially the butterflies.

Answer 2

If you want something you have to go get it. Love doesn't call you up and make itself available like a telemarketer. You're doing the right thing by searching for that someone special. Too many people expect love to just happen on its own without any effort put forth into finding it. You must be patient though because in searching, it will take a long time to find anything at all, not to mention whether or not it's what you're looking for. to increase your odds of finding someone all you have to do is get out more. There are a few billion women throughout the world. Just start looking in more places and you're bound to find somebody you like.

But in the meantime you have to ask yourself why you want to find somebody to love so much. Sure, it might have its jollies but so does being single. You probably have a lot more going for you than you know. Take advantage of it and be content with who you are and what you currently have. So yes, you can search for love, but don't build it up so high that it's your primary goal in life. Love should only be a small part of your life as a whole, you can't afford to waste a lot of extra time on dating, marriage, etc. Focus on more important aspects, like your art for example. (I particularly liked the masquerades) Don't worry about it too much, as long as you continue searching and being patient, you'll find somebody.

Answer 3

all i have to say is keep looking because i know how that feels. Every guy that i meet and date turns out to be a jerk in the end, so i am trying to find someone too. I am sure u will find someone and i wish u good luck,.

Answer 4

single is not the best feeling in the world,but being dumped after being with someone is...in some ways what you are doing is depressing but in other ways its a good thing that you did.yeah you want some spark and a future,but if you haven't found that someone yet,she'll be coming when you least expect it.

Answer 5

It's not all bad man, I have just got back in contact with a girl I cared for deeply. 17 years have passed since we talked; then last friday she rang me and we talked for an hour and a half so it is all good ( I Think? )

Anyway point is: If you are patient and yourself at all times then you will find HER and if not She will find YOU ( No real new advice for you, sorry but hang in there, LOVE will Happen! :) )

Will chk out your website, thanks buddy

Answer 6

i hate it to but look on the good side a lot of free men out there waiting

Answer 7

Hey Ronnie....don't give up...!!!...Love is out there....you just have to find it........enjoy life.......enjoy getting to know different girls.....try chattin with one that you normally don't chat with....you might find that the difference is just what you needed.....hang in there...!!!!!.....