how can i make her ask me; do you like me?
2006-08-06 09:49:54 · 30 answers · asked by LeeeeeeeeroooyJeeeeeeeeenkiiiins 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What's with all the mind games??? If you love her & want her, you should have the courage to ASK HER yourself!!! Sorry to be harsh but that's the reality. Show her that you're determined and want her to be yours, so much that you're bold. But don't be too bold cause then you'll scare her (possibly away). If you really feel that you have to get her to make the first move, then why don't you flirt with her or something, that way she'll get the hint. You could also have the "relationship" discussion, ya know the one that you start with someone when you wanna know whether you're just friends or something else? Try it.
2006-08-06 09:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a nice letter... girls love that sort of thing- and it makes a great keepsake. You don't have to say it straight out, but don't be too evasive either, or she won't get the point. You obviously want her to know you like her, and it's hard to make her aware without just coming out and saying it. Take a chance, kiddo- write that letter and let things go from there. You will regret it if you don't say something now! Good luck- hope it works out for you!
2006-08-06 16:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight out is better...it makes you come off as more confident, and you avoid a lot of confusion in the meantime. Bite the bullet and put the information out there, then you've both got something to talk about. Good luck.
2006-08-06 16:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means that you were friends for quite sometime. By now you should have the confident to approach her about anything. She may already know that you have a extreme CRUUSH! on her. Now is the time to express yourself to her. Honesty is the best policy. How would she know you like her unless you gave her some hints to go on.
ANYWAY! Be a MAN step up to the plate and HOLLER at your true love.
LOVE will find a WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
BE quick on your toes.... Before she moves on.......
2006-08-06 17:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by lavender 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show interest. Smile at her, give her compliments. Hang out with her often, do things together. Talk to her about her life and yours. Get her little gifts or flowers from time to time. If that still doesn't do the trick, then you'll have to just say it directly (which is better anyway).
2006-08-06 16:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the first line of what you just told us,but be serious about it,sound like a man,cuz she will or might think,u WANT her so much,u cud do anythin' 4 her,which won't b good.
she might also think you are shy n not strong enuf 4 takin' this long 2 tell her,
tell her when it's jsu' u and her,softly,but in a genuine male way, i have been ...don' tell her ever since u saw her u....that's old,n i h8 it cuz i think you're lying,
tell her what is in your heart,not your mind!
you don't have to pour ya heart out,but tell her in a male way,...thats all i have for now,i think
good luck
2006-08-06 17:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by gabi c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what my girlfriend (now wife) once did when we were on a date. Go out to dinner and mouth the words "olive juice." if you do it right she will think you said I love you. If she freaks out you can always tell her that you actually said olive juice and were just trying to get a rise out of her. If she seems happy about it you might as well just go with it.
P.S. "elephant shoes" also works
2006-08-06 16:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by travelerNY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could write her a letter. That way you would let her know without having to say it straight to her face.
If you don't want to let her know like that, you can flirt with her, say nice things randomly and eventually she'll suspect you may like her, but I don't think she's gonna ask you anyway. Maybe you could tell your friends or her friends, and when she suspects, she's gonna ask them if they know something, and then they could tell her you said you liked her.
2006-08-06 16:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You watch When Harry Met Sally with her while downing white russians. If that doesn't go over build her a heart made of legos
2006-08-06 16:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by JJohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's silly! The best way to say it is to say it "straight out". Girls like a guy who takes the initiative!
2006-08-06 16:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by Audra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋