The man I've been talking to and getting to know just told me he is only interested in women for sex because he had his heart broken by an ex and he just wants to be friends with me. He then asked questions about my sexual style. Is he saying he just wants to be friends because he thinks I am ugly and my dog has to put a barf bag over my head to kiss me or does he want a friend with benefits?
2006-08-06 09:32:32 · 19 answers · asked by Wildfire 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For those of you that asked or told me to get self esteem: I am not ugly,not even close. But...no one is everybody's type & I wondered if what he said meant this or the friends w/ benefits thing.
2006-08-06 10:25:31 · update #1
if he is asking questions in that way then he is only looking for a bed mate. He may have trust issues right now so do what you can without sleeping with him. if you can get him out of the gutter you may find him ready for a relationship. but remember he is a guy and we are all weak in that area. once stabbed twice shy. take it slow and see. if he tries anything aggressive or stupid. kick him in the balls and find a real man.
2006-08-06 09:39:47 · answer #1 · answered by warchild125 2 · 28⤊ 3⤋
just with the fact that he told he was looking for somebody that is interested in sex that should have been the sign to tell you to get out of it as fast as u can. Look for somebody that will value you for you and not because of your sexual style. Believe me nobody is ugly, unless its a guy wanting to use a girl.
2006-08-06 16:39:19 · answer #2 · answered by Demeter_1999 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be ugly...It could be that he's a little scared at the moment!!! Go ahead ; give some sexual healing , you might benefit from that yourself!!! Love is in the air(smile), He might take you there!!!
2006-08-06 16:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah it sounds like you've guessed it and hit the nail on the head. Sounds like it's friends with benefits for sure, which leads me to believe he just wants sex from you.
2006-08-06 16:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by chariot804 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he isn't saying much. Probably too consumed with thinking about what positions to get you in. If you like him and want to have sex with him, go for it, problem solved. If not, tell him to feck off and indulge in self love. And if you are ugly, well, them I'm sorry for ya.
2006-08-06 16:38:35 · answer #5 · answered by JJohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is saying he wants all the benefits of a wife without the commitment and responsibilities. If it were me, I'd cut this cat loose pronto.
2006-08-06 16:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants friends with benefits.
2006-08-06 16:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Rico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men rarely lie about who they REALLY ARE when they say stuff like that.
So, yes, he just wants sex.
and get some self=esteem for God's sake.
2006-08-06 16:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants a friend with benefits. and maybe more in the long run
2006-08-06 16:37:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be your friend ... he just wants the benefits part.
2006-08-06 16:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick that jerk to the curb,,asap,,should have been when he told you that.I wouldnt even want him as a friend the A-- H--e
2006-08-06 16:38:16 · answer #11 · answered by annie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋