I`m twevle and my boyfriend who is 13 and a half moved to California.The problem is I live in Kansas. He still likes me and writes a lot but it kinda doesn`t feel right being so far apart. I still like him but I think we should only be friends. Should I tell him or should I keep leading him on? Please help.
2006-08-06 09:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by ♥MeMeAnn♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships normally don't work!! If you feel like you two should split up then it would be for the best!! If you met up with him later then great if not then it wasn't meant to be!
2006-08-06 09:33:09 · answer #1 · answered by dustyskylark68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are right, that you should only be friends. It's too hard to have a relationship when you are so far apart from each other and you aren't old enough to drive or travel alone. You are young and able to find many more people to date in the future and you don't want to hold yourself back with someone who lives so far away. You should keep writing each other and stay friends, and maybe someday you can restart your relationship when you get older! Good luck! :)
2006-08-06 16:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hawkeyegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue to reamin friends... being friends is the best thing which can take place in a relationship. If you intend to take this relationship any further then let time test it. Allow your relation to mature and then you will be in a better position to take a correct decission.
2006-08-06 16:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by Abhijit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Imagine how hurt he would be if he finds out later on. You are only 13. You have your whole life ahead of you, you do not need to be carrying on a long-distance relationship.
2006-08-06 16:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be dating at all and I pray that you two haven't had sex. but, if he really likes you, that's cute. unfortunately, it's not going to go anywhere seeing that you guys live so far apart. i say that you know yourself better than anyone and you should do what feels right.
2006-08-06 16:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by Chingona 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you feel, jus tbe freinds with him, you're too young for a long distance relationship sweety.take your time with the guys, don't rush into thing cause you'll regret it later.
2006-08-06 16:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and make the long distance raltionship work! u likee him.. and dont leavee him.. writee bakc chat onlinee! tell him to *** bakc to visit! itll work out fineee!
2006-08-06 16:35:06 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy Pookie ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest and tell him the truth.... start telling guys the truth now and you wont be on the most hated list when you are 25..... lol
2006-08-06 16:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by rock n roll all night.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
KEEPloving him won day fate will bring u to together
2006-08-06 16:29:24 · answer #9 · answered by Baller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u break up wit him he may come back to kansas to kill you
2006-08-06 16:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by King Of All Kings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋