2006-08-06 09:24:02 · 25 answers · asked by Gemini 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Partly yes because he is engaging in sexual activity without you and partly no because the boundaries of realty are distinctly blurred with cybersex. She may be real but he's not physically with her is he? If you love him and you want to salvage your relationship in a healthy manner and most importantly if you are willing, then go with it. Get involved. Become an active participant in this sexual experience. That way you won't get left out and he is no longer cheating on you. He can take one of two routes with this suggestion either become really interested, try it out a few times and then somehow realize that he has the real thing right in front of him or succumb to his cybersex addiction. If that's the case, then sisters got herself a new man one that'll appreciate a real woman!
2006-08-06 09:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dr_Seamus 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Well, it is not quite cheating, but apprently there is something missing in your relationship. You need to sit down with him and ask him what he wants and needs, and then decide if you can give it to him. If you can't, I would suggest a compromise. Let him have his cybersex, as long as he doesn't physically see these people and actually 'CHEATS'' on you. Now if you are not getting the sex you need, then there is definitely a problem, and you both need to see a sex therapists, though I am truly reluctant to suggest that.
2006-08-06 09:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Kathy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All "wrong" starts in the heart, and then manifests from there. So yes, it is cheating, doesn't matter if it's in person or over the computer, it's what his desires are that are coming out of his heart.
2006-08-06 09:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by healthy_funny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how do you feel about it? Does it bother you that your boyfriend is doing sexual things to himself while watching "another woman" do sexual things to herself?? One fact alone is that there is "another woman" in the scenario at all. He must want that right? So.....cheating? Let's see.....there's you, AND someone else. I'd say, that's a big fat YES.
2006-08-06 09:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by ktltel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to wonder about this and even ask others this question, it shows you're not comfortable with his doing that. Dump him ASAP. Mentally he is not faithful to you. Do you want to settle for that? There are many more fish in the sea for you to choose from.
2006-08-06 09:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by minx2it 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is whatever you say it is. You need, of course, to kindly let him know that and he has the option of saying it isn't etc. etc. etc. Negotiate the deal. These things aren't written in stone anywhere--the two of you have to make the deal.
2006-08-06 09:28:44 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think that it really is dishonest, though even if it truly is something that you think uncomfortable with then this can properly be a difficulty. i think it may worry me better that a million. it truly is with adult adult males and a pair of. there is possibilities to fulfill someone that you note on the internet. it really is now no longer the same as searching porn.
2016-11-23 13:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. He is sharing intimate thoughts and actions with another woman. Not good!
2006-08-06 09:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yes!! He is being intimate with someone other than you. Even though they are not physically together they are getting physcal.
2006-08-06 09:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by rdnckfrfghtr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes..........Most certainly. My nieces husband left her for a cyber relationship...the relationship didnt work and he wanted his wife back but did that mean it didnt happen. Nope...they are divorced!
2006-08-06 09:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Stephanie N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋