My thirteen year old gf asked me if i knew any tips to help her jack off better. Do you have any tips?? Doing it with her is not the answer because we both pledge abstenence. and we both agreed to to have oral either...
2006-08-06 09:11:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When i was thirteen, i worried about my hair. That girl is seriously too young to be thinking about that stuff.
2006-08-06 09:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by *Barbie Girl* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a little young, but lets face reality, you're not gonna be able to stop her, it's just something that's natural and eventually occurs, different people mature a little faster. My best advice, tell her to use a running faucet in a bath-tub, it works every time. It's great that you both agree in abstenence, be sure to stick with it - however when you're both a little older, oral wouldn't hurt anything. But however, before you do, make sure you read up on any possible negatives that could result from it (there are very few...but it's best to be educated). Take Care!
PS - to all of you who said you didn't do anything kinda like that when you were 13, you're a bunch of liars. It's a natural thing to be curious about. So just own up to your past.
2006-08-06 09:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by ------ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that she is thirteen has no bearing on her sex life yes she is young but i have seen plenty that started younger than that and in my opinion coming from some one that knows it will be better for her to learn from some one that she cares about and possibly loves than to end up raped or something worse by some sick *** pervert that thinks she is a young slut and a new piece of *** the best way that i have found is to just get in and do it think about any thing that turns you on and then just do it it gets the job done the water faucet thing is a good option too but i dont think that she is going to come up with a vibrator after all she is 13 and i dont think that her parents are going to just walk into the novelty store buy a vibrator and hand it to her and say here use this it will help the fact that you all have decided to be abstinent is wonderful though keep your minds set and that will do you all a world of good
2006-08-06 09:33:14 · answer #3 · answered by askingandanswering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, I think your too young for this type relationship with a girl. It is one thing for you to fool around, or for your female friend to fool around in this area as it is part of growing up. BUT I would suggest that you speak with an older male like maybe a cousin, or an uncle, OR your dad. Whoever you are closer or more comfortable with. And I would recommend the same thing for your female friend. And NOTICE I will NOT use the term girl or boyfriend as I believe your both too young for this type of relationship. Good Luck.
2006-08-06 09:23:45 · answer #4 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since you're obviously thinking of it i an provide a bit of personal advice, a little friend called a bullet. i swear it's the best thing next to the real thing. i caution u to go slow at first cause it's powerful and it may be a scary feeling. I can't judge cause as a mother i don't want my little girl to think like that but realistically i know kids are doing it but at least you have vowed to remain virgins...somewhat. hey you doing better than i was at 13
2006-08-06 09:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's 13! Masturbating should not even be a priority right now! She should wait till she's older and can understand her body better. If she absolutely can't wait tell her to get a vibrator. The Bullet would be great for her. Good luck!
By the way, I respect the fact that you two are waiting to have sex!
2006-08-06 09:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by BJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You practice abstinence but yet you are jacking off?? Anything that creates arousal is considered sexual immoral, so honey I would recommend you not doing anything at all.
Jude 1:7 in the Holy Bible (NIV) says: In a similar way, Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding towns gave themselves up to sexual immorality and perversion. They serve as an example of those who suffer the punishment of eternal fire.
Galatians 5:19The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.
If you have a relationship with Jesus Christ, then ask for forgiveness and ask you will receive.
If you do not, then please, ask Jesus into your heart, ask him to forgive you for your sins, everyoen is a sinner, ask him to save you from your sins, repent and ask Jesus into your heart, he will give you eternal life and he will give you the power to overcome anything that hinders you.
1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can stand up under it.
and....
John 14:6~ I am the way, the Truth and the Life, no man comes to the Father but through me. (Jesus).
Be saved from the grip of temptation and evil, it gives pleasure, but only for a moment, and then it is gone, temporary, but if you give it up, you will have eternity life, nothing in this life is eternal, it is all temporary, being destroyed, rusting, rotting, and being stolen, but God is eternal. Give up this world, and take your free gift of salvation in heaven, be saved from the grips of the devil in hell, and the evil deeds that he lures us in by. God is more powerful and will come back to reign and rule. All of his children will go with him, while the wicked are left to suffer. Scary truth, but not when you know Jesus as your SAVIOR
2006-08-06 09:25:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl does not jack off. Sorry but you are both too young to even think of that sort of stuff. Her body is not ready for adult hood yet.
2006-08-06 09:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good for u guys pledging abstinence! but sorry i really can't give tips to a 13yr old that is gross sorry,,concentrate on school
2006-08-06 09:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by emily w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude im 14 and im not even asking a guy that tell he rto get a f***ing life and that she has better things to look foward to shes a dumb slut to be asking that or a *****
2006-08-06 09:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by lil_babygirl_210 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋