are all women man haters?

Question

Why when a women has one bad experiance, or maybe two they then turn into man haters. Why is that?

Answer 1

papo, it goes both ways. Men are women haters, and women are man haters. Just because we have all bitten into a rotten apple out of the bushel doesn't mean that they have ruined it for us. Women as a whole are not man haters, we are just causious and we do compare our mates with past bad experiences. Sorry, being burned, mistreated, and sometimes rejected does sting a little bit and does make some people bitter. Just get over it and move on, apparently the person that burned you wasn't the right person for you to begin with.

Answer 2

We don't necessarily hate men; just the things they do to hurt us. Some of us ask for it, and some of us don't. Once we've been hurt pretty good a few times, the guard goes way up, because we don't want to get hurt again. Men tend to misconstrue this and percieve us to be b*itches and don't take into account that there is a valid reason behind the attitude. We don't always mean to be short, but if we can find a man who will see past that and break down that wall and teach us it's safe to trust again, we generally go back to our loving, trusting selves again. Some women do take it to the extreme, and are so hurt that they don't recognize that it's the actions and not the gender in general that causes the pain, and when we look at all men, the only face we see is that of the man who did us dirty. It's unfortunate that there are some guys who are so dirty that they ruin some women for men that are actually decent.

Answer 3

I don't think women are man haters - trust me I have had some bad experiences with men in my life but also realize that life it too short and there is no reason to be bitter because I had some bad experiences.
I however do believe that women that have had a bad experience or two with men are more cautious as a defense to keep themselves from getting hurt again -

Answer 4

It's not that women are man haters it is simply common for a person who is hurt more then once to be apprehensive. In expressing distaste for what has happened in the past a woman simply lets it be known that she doesn't want the same situation again. Men aren't any different but, you rarely hear about woman haters do you?

Answer 5

Women are as different from eachother as men are..Of course not all women with bad experiences hate men! There's always a choice to forgive/move on/get new hope or hate, if another person hurts you, nomatter if this is a man, woman, parent, friend or whoever..When this is said it is a fact that certain types of hurts can cause permanent damage nomatter how a person chooses to relate to it. If someone cuts your face up real bad theres always going to be scars..If someone breaks your heart or messes up your soul theres always gonna be scars.
The fact that someone seems negative can acctually be fear; have you ever thought about that?

Answer 6

we do not all do that but the reason for it is the resemblance that alot of you bring into play i am one of those women that has more than one bad experience but i do not hate men i am afraid of them but i do not hate them i just hate the things that some of them do. and i hate the attitude that some of them take toward the things that have happened to me just because it is in my past doesnt mean that it is not right there on the edge of my mind at any given time. i mean that isnt saying that you all remind me of the low life sap suckers that have hurt me it just means that the things that you say and do are a little more closely monitored so as to stop it before any one gets hurt the next time. Men are also very schovanistic some times i know that you all like to be the macho ones but just because the grocieries are a little bit heavy that doesnt mean that i cant carry them in it might take me a lil longer but i will get them

Answer 7

I have had two bad experiences and I am not a man hater. I just don't expect much from them anymore.

Answer 8

not all women are man haters. i believe that there are good RESPECTABLE men out there. but you have to understand that some men are just jerks. give a girl time. try being her friend first. that's probable all she's going to want for a while. let her bring up the relationship possibility.

Answer 9

Because it hurts and they have not healed yet. But, not all women are man haters. Some of us appreciate men and are waiting for mr. wonderful to knock on the door.

Answer 10

Ive had a bad experience and I aint a man hater, he was an ar**hole. Not every man is.