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you see...for me, it makes no difference if you meet someone online or in person. feelings are feelings and love is love regardless of where you meet someone. some people say its better to meet someone in person because online you never know who you're talking to but i feel that is the same with people you meet in person as well. i mean...a person who you meet who is planning to deceive you will do it online as well as in person. people think that just because you meet someone online that they are 100% deceivers as if the people we meet face to face could never think of deceiving...but they do...if they choose to do so. most of the broken relationships in this world and divorces are from people who met face to face so why do people make such a big deal about the ones who meet online..i mean...eventually they will meet/see each other anyway. it's almost like people don't want to see others find happiness if they don't do it in a certain way. what do you guys think about it

2006-08-06 08:45:05 · 26 answers · asked by Leicha 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

26 answers

It's impossible to argue with your logic. Well done!
Back in the "old days" people fell in love though letters and telephone calls. Today it's email and IM. Same principal applies though; people with like interests and values meet and connect on a higher plane. People have an amazing capacity to love and love itself has many different levels. I don't think there is a limit on love. There is no maximum. The more you learn about someone special the more you appreciate them and want to be near them. Doesn't matter how or where you connect. Internet, telephone, IM, letters, smoke signals... doesn't matter. We love who we love. We can't help it. However love comes to us we should treasure it and hold it precious.

2006-08-06 08:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by AK 6 · 5 0

I think if u meet someone online or in person it is all the same. And some people really prefer the internet cause then they are open to new things. then the normal meeting places like the bar, club, church, any basic plce like that. On the internet u are open to broader ur horizons. So it basicly up to u and how u see things. I know a couple of people who met someone online and they are married now. So just because you met on here makes no difference.

2006-08-06 08:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mellie 2 · 2 0

i think meeting on-line and falling in love happens all the time. I know of a couple of marriages that the couples met that way...and those are the marriages that are the most loving in my opion. The reason: you fall in love with the true self, not the made up front that most people put up when you first meet and fall in love only to realize that you fell in love with a lie.

Good luck!!

2006-08-06 08:49:12 · answer #3 · answered by latina21_01ucf 2 · 2 0

I think it's possible, but from my own experience it's very easy to mask love with lust because you finally have someone to talk to. Be sure you really take a step back and look at the qualities that are presented in front of you.

2016-03-27 01:18:06 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I think it's possible to fall in love with the person that you think you know on line. Please before you make any commitments get to know the real person. On line or not it takes some time for peoples true colors to show. There will be changes some good some not so good. true love is great if its with the right person and they feal the same way. Good luck

2006-08-06 08:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by serfblues 2 · 2 0

I agree with you. I think its just like the real world .. not all of them are deceivers.
But it think that chatting with people on internet won't let u know a lot about the person ur chatting with .. till u meet outside.
For me, i really prefer chatting face to face..

2006-08-06 09:02:15 · answer #6 · answered by cOLd 1 · 1 0

I met my now fiance on line and it is going beautifully. If a person is deceitful it doesn't matter how or where you meet them.....they are the way they are. There is no one set way to meet a person. There are just as many game players in bars, at church ,at work or right in your social network as there are on line. Don't miss a chance to meet someone wonderful just because he's on line and not standing right in front of you.

2006-08-06 08:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by softlyinspired 5 · 3 0

you are right that love is lovr but u have to make sure that it really IS love. When u dont meet someone in person u cant be sure of their motives or what they are like. Mayeb they are not like you at all. Or maybe they dont care about u at all. Maybe they are crap holes looking for someone to entertain their time. you need to get to know them. Very well. but after you do, then a relationship is perfectly fine.

2006-08-06 08:49:31 · answer #8 · answered by Laura 2 · 2 0

well i have meet a lot of females on-line and out if a few of them who i talk to maybe one or two have fall in love with me and i meet them and everything went okay. once the person is feeling u and u are feeling the person u are talking to then that's when love begins to set in and it's a beautiful thing..

2006-08-06 08:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kayquan 1 · 3 0

Be very cautious, the person may not be who he says he is. If you want to meet for the first time make sure you have someone with you.

2006-08-06 08:50:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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