The Light at the end of the Tunnel is not some1 bringing more work, it's the way out!
Life is what U make it, smile & the whole world smiles with U cry & U cry alone.
No I give up!
I can't think of something that'll magically make Negative People Positive.
If they're happy like that who am I 2 change them!
2006-08-06 08:48:27
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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Perhaps one needs to explore from where those negatives arise. Then why are they arising? We all have imbedded dire emotions into our mind's storage area.. When they are triggered by some associated thought, actions and reactions occur. We don't often know why they cause us to do what we do.
You will also find; when you spend time thinking about you and those things around you, the negatives seem to appear from nowhere. You are able to spend an endless time finding all the things wrong with you or your lifes situation but, you are also able to fight off those negative thoughts.
When you are able to accept this dilemma as a challenge, you have taken the first step in correcting the problem. When you decide you are wasting a lot of valuable time, you will get the incentive to do something to alter you path. You do have a lot of control over what you allow your own mind to do to you.. Start thinking that way and learn to push those negatives away before they actually gang up on you and have taken over those thought processes.
One of the more successful ways to accomplish this, can be done from a physical change and an attitudinal adjustment. Find some other people in need of help and do some volunteer work. This will keep your mind occupied in a much different direction and you will have the opportunity to observe someone else liven a bit, right in front of your eyes..An ample reward for anyone.
2006-08-12 11:21:13
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answered by mrcricket1932 6
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I always try to praise (or compliment) people who seem to be negative all the time - even when they're negative toward me. I work with kids with behavior problems and one day, one of them told me I looked fat in my bathing suit (I'm 5'4" tall and weigh 120 pounds - not really overweight). I just said, "I know - that's why I bought it." I didn't let her negative comments get to me and I didn't give her the reaction she wanted. She stopped. Negative people sometimes act that way because they have a low self-esteem. Help them build it up. Help them develop skills or abilities. Compliment something about them each day. Stay positive around them as much as possible.
2006-08-06 15:52:37
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answered by TJMiler 6
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try looking at things from a different point of view not everything in this world is negative. dare to get out of the box and do something
really different like if you have a zoo in your home town go to it or if you are into art a museum or even a science museum you will be surprised to find alot of positive things there and other places as well
2006-08-13 09:49:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Kill them with kindness. When someone is negative, always return to them with a positive response. It kills them every time and eventually it turns their attitude around. Most of all, don't let negetive people get you down, usually negetive people are so unhappy with their own lives that they have to make other people miserable. So as hard as it is, just kill them with a lot of good thoughts. Tell them to look on the bright side of things. Tell them to have a nice day, or you are sorry for whatever it is they are miserable about.
As hard as it is: be kind. (and be very clever in your kindness)
2006-08-13 23:08:15
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answered by Anonymous
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Absolutely, go to any book store and get a book of daily affirmations. Negative thought patterns are a habit, and habits can be changed thru consistant behaviors, like reading daily affirmations. Consistancy and determination are the winners in this effort.
2006-08-06 15:49:03
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answered by essentiallysolo 7
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I suggest you read any book by author Joseph Murphy. "The Power of Your Subconscious Mind" is a good one to start with. According to Mr. Murphy, thoughts are things and we get what we think. Good things happen to those who think positively. People who think negatively have sickness and trouble. He suggests saying to yourself "I am happy to be healthy, successful and wealthy. God is guiding me now. Goodness fills my soul and I radiate love and joy to everyone I come in contact with." Repeat this several times a day and wonders will happen in your life. Good Luck!
2006-08-06 15:54:12
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answered by MissKathleen 6
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I am a very negative person, but what i do is try to think positively by or daydreaming, or praying or, when i'm by myself, i just bust out laughing for no reason, can you imagine if i did that in front of other people?!! i try to force myself to be happy for no reason...it is VERY hard but the more you force yourself to do it, the better you will feel...if you are a beleiver, pray your *** off!
2006-08-06 15:53:05
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answered by Anonymous
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Want the truth? Jesus can change their life. To seek the Lord WITH ALL YOUR HEART is the only real way for a person to change. I have been there. The Holy Spirit moves in my life with dreams, direction, and unconditional love. Start to worship your Maker and find Him. That is what we were created to do. (to have a loving relationship with God) Seek to please Him and He will change you through prayer. After all, God knows EVERYTHING about you.I used to be a muddy mess.
2006-08-06 16:14:09
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answered by Anonymous
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i am trying to do this for the past 10 yrs of my life. i save voice mail or cards people give me with thigns that are speical and read it when i am sad . also the book dont sweat the small stuff helps ALOT
2006-08-12 21:17:53
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answered by Rock_N_Roll_Chicky 5
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