Why did he break my heart?

Question

All i ever did was love him. i gave him the world. i lived to see him happy and it just seemed like he lived to see me cry. why do boys to this to us? i gave him my heart. i let him do things to be that i would have neva imagined to do wit ANYONE. why did he do this to me? why did he break my heart? why would he tell me he loves me and dont mean it? everything is just movin so fast i dont kno wat to do? why did he break my heart?

we never had sex!!!

Answer 1

Instead of focusing on why he broke your heart - to which there is really no answer, excpet he did not truly love you and only wanted to use you for his own pleasure - you should focus on the qualities you have and what you can truly offer a real man. You should also focus on the type of man you want in your life. Someone who is honest, caring, kind and compassionate. It takes time and don't let the cutie pie or bad boy get to you. BE STRONG!

you sound like the kind of woman who treats her partner with respect, love and kindness and are willing to give all of yourself to the relationship. These are all good things for you because is says a lot about the kind of relationship your looking for - one based upon trust, respect, honesty and true love.

Many guys only see women as a conquest, another notch in their belt, they do not care about the womans feelings and are always looking for the next woman to bed - it makes them feel powerful and cool, and in reality they are weak, pitiful and slime bags.

So, don't cry for or over him, he is a loser. Hold your head up, vow to take your time and find a really great man to be with, don't rush into anything, take time to discover who you relly are and what you truly want in a relationship. Remember his is the one who will eventually be alone and hurting because he will never have what you will have - true love.

Best of luck and cry to feel better but not for him or over him, he is not worth it.

Matt

Answer 2

Quite simply Datrealma, because you gave yourself to him too freely. What was he to think (that is, if he has a brain), that you have been too free with other boys before him. You will have to start again and this time, don't let the boy get his own way. Keep some self respect and dignity. If he does not like it, let him lump it. You are not a sex toy to be used then thrown away like a dirty rag. Always remember, you are the boss and what you say and do goes. Men prefer that kind of a relationship, they do not have to prove anything. Back to this idiot, you have just dumped. Think of him as exactly as he was and is, an ignorant pig......... and you will soon forget him and wonder what on earth you ever saw in him. Another thing, don't be in too much of a rush to get into another relationship too quickly..............

Answer 3

I am sorry that you are hurting, but it sounds like your very young and this will happen many many times in your life. I am sure he did not mean to break your heart or make you cry, this is just something that happens when your young and feel like you are in love. Forget about him and go on with what you normally do. No boy is worth crying over and being misserable. You will be fine in time and will be with someone else.

Answer 4

hunny it sounds like you got a bad apple there. some guys are just heartless for some reason they say they love you but really just using you for things. keep your head up even though you love him it is OK. let it out for a bit and cry if you need to. you are stronger than he is anyway. he will realize what he did to you and how you treated him and regret ever doing that to you. tell you one thing though if he tries to come back make sure with him and tell him you will not take it anymore and he will need to straighten his attitude about things. also he needs to treat you better.
if he doesn't I'm sorry Hun things will get better the right guy is right around the corner. i hope i helped you in anyway. if you need to talk more you can look me up and i will be here

Answer 5

Only he has the answer to that maybe you let him walk over you to much you say you gave a lot did he ever give back or did he just take until he got bored and moved on.

Next time expect something in return

Answer 6

He broke it because he could.

I know, dumb answer, but you answered the question yourself...You gave too much of yourself, and in doing that, devalued yourself in his eyes. So he tossed you aside like an old shoe, and probably already has another honey, am I right?
Just take a deep breath, tell yourself you're learning a good lesson, take a break from men, build yourself back up, hold your head high..
And remember, NO MAN IS WORTH YOUR TEARS!

Answer 7

are u sure, u didnt hurt him first?
cause it sounds like these are the things a girl would do to a guy.
its the women with the cheating hearts.
either way, maybe he didnt deserve u. try to find another guy.
u know what i think it is. its because like other women u went for him because of his "bad boy" persona right? well, what did u expect then? why cant u go for the nice guys? they'll always be there for u, they'll eat glass for u. but noooo, typical girl behaviour u go for the sleaze of society, then when they break ur heart, u go complaining.

Answer 8

Because you were in love (or so you thought) and he just wanted sex. And once he got it, he didn't need to pretend to love you anymore.

Let this be a learning experience. Any guy can say he loves you, but the guy who really loves you will keep loving you even when you say you want to save sex for marriage. Of course, if you can't control your own desires you have no hope of controlling his.

Answer 9

wanna no the truth becuz hes a prick bby girl us gyals need to get togeva and stick togeva u no what ide love 2 see one of you boys answerin this y u do dis to us bbe u neva alone in this cuz i dnt no u but im allways her 4 u bbe xxxxxxx

sorry i ent der to help but take my advice neva get to attached

never make some 2 your everything becuz wene they go yur left with nothing xxxxxxxxx

Answer 10

take it from a man, we are all pigs no matter how good you treat us, we are always looking at the grass on the other hill side... im sorry that some one has hurt you, it just goes to show that we as men are f*cked up and dont know a good thing when we have one.