What do I do????????

Question

Ok,
My Mom has been aving her new bf Paul over, right?
Well every night they have sex!
and she doesn't ever spend anytime with me anymore! and when we do its always about Paul!
Well yesterday night at about 11:00PM
I heard Paul and my mom having sex and yelling and i didn't or couldn't go to sleep for hours!My room is on the other side of the wall.
and the walls are thin

please help but if ur not serious then dont

Answer 1

She has a new bf so right now everything is new and exciting for her so give her a break. The newness will wear off soon and then she'll be more open to spending one-on-one time with you. One thing you could do together that Paul wouldn't want to do is go shopping with your Mom for back-to-school stuff. As for the noise they make, if you have an MP3 device stick the earphone things in your ears and listen to some music.

Answer 2

Start banging on your wall and moaning and yelling tonight when your mom is in bed and see her reaction. When she storms in to see what you are doing, ask her if she likes hearing that? She will realize that you can hear everything and that you as her child, do not appreciate knowing what goes on with her and her boyfriend. You need to tell her your feelings towards this situation, and if she chooses not to change anything then you can say that your mom puts her bf first, not her kids. You can hold that against her for a long time. Lots of moms do that, and it is a shame. Make her look into herself as a mother, and hopefully you will enable a change in her.

Answer 3

Try to talk to her about it. Chances are she may say it's none of your business since she's the "parent." Better yet, embarass them by pretending you didn't know they were in there doing you know what. Have friends over that make a lot of noise and disturb them or accidently walk in the room for something and make a big to do about not thinking they were in there. Play loud music. You might get yelled at but it might also remind them that they aren't the only ones there. Hope you find something that works. I would be grossed out too!

Answer 4

i dunno how old u are and how mature n understanding.
one thing is certain, your mom is at the eleast being what i sya
insensitive or not caring
well if she doesnt care
its trouble for u baby
Try this one first
tell mom how u feel,that while u may understand her needs
u are unable to take the of pressure whats happening
u wud appreciate her taking time off from her needs and share your issues .this shud work
if it does not then i guess ou will have to take on her role
develop understanding and be a mother and daughter to yourself

Believe me when the going gets tough the tough get going.
This incidents nay actually help u become a stronger woman and face life better.i ve seen it happen.
if sum one can guide u in addition its great.
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best of luck

Answer 5

On weeknights go over ya friend go to mall ,movies or go swimming and u and ya mom need to spend time together ask her wanna go shopping stuff like that and see what she says


Good LUCK!

Answer 6

Let your mom know what's bothering you. If you can't then hang out at afriends house as much as possible or stay overnight somewhere else. Maybe mom will get the hint.

Answer 7

Just tell your mom you really need to talk. I'm sure she doesn't want you uncomfortable in your own home, and just isnt realizing what is going on. Perhaps once you mention it things will work out, or you can both try to make them work out.

Answer 8

you should seat and talk to your mother about how you feel about her relationship with that guy. also you can talk about how you feel when have sex and that you cannot sleep. you can tell her that you need to have a good time talking to her or have fun together going shopping or to the beach. then if you want you can talk to her boyfriend and get to know each other. good luck

Answer 9

well tell Paul your tired of hearing it every night and want to sleep tell him u Will run away if he don't leave. lol jk just talk to them both about it and tell them your tired of it good luck hope u get some sleep.

Answer 10

When she's by herself, talk to her in a calm, mature manner and let her know that you can hear them having sex. She probably doesn't realize this. Also, let her know you are feeling neglected and see if you guys can set a day each week that you and her can hang out by yourselves.