i m 22 years old girl. my skin colour is black. i look ugly coz of that.i feel very ockward no one likes me?

Question

boys dont talk to me. they reject me. some time i feel like commiting sucide coz of this what should i do i m helpless

Answer 1

Get Ebony and Jet magazines and look at all the beautiful women of color, please.

Then find a look that you like, go to a beauty school where they have students do make-up and hair on customers for very little money and ~ voila~ you'll be as pretty as the next girl.

Don't forget that you are who think you are. If you think you are
not worthy of being attractive you won't ever be.

Answer 2

My Dear Young Lady, No body is ugly because of their skin color. You are not ugly either. I can tell you that without ever seeing you because you are a creation of God. God does not make ugly people or things, just different. If a person looks at somebody on the outside for beauty then they are fools, because the real beauty is on the inside of every human being. Try talking to the boys. It is not wrong for a female to talk to a male. If it were there would be a lot of really lonely people in this world. Suicide is never the answer. Look at those that love you, and there are many. Maybe some that you don't even know. Imagine the pain these people would feel if you were to do that. If you ever lost a loved one remember how hurt you were at their passing. Why would you want to put all those people through that pain. Remember this, suicide is selfishness, it does not cure any problems, it only adds more hurt. Please do not even consider it. You are very young yet, you will find the right man for you, you have plenty of time yet. It is also not unheard of for a young lady to ask a young man out either. You may want to consider that also. Just know the person you are asking out. Be safe.

Dave

Answer 3

Why would you think you are ugly? because of some boys? They don't know anything. The boys your age are still pretty stupid about life and don't know aq beautiful women in front of them if they were hit in the head. The color of ones skin doesn't make them ugly. If you are unhappy with your self right5 now forget about the boys for a while and concintrate on you. What do you want to do in life? Work on YOUR dreams what You want out of life. When you are confident about your self people start to see that it bleams out of you that you know who you are and what you want. And the man that is lucky enough to be with you will love you for who you are, not care about skin color and support you and your dreams. Please do not think of sucide you are worth so much more. That is a finall solution and can not be changeds. Good luck hon.

Answer 4

So what if you have black skin. Girl, be proud of who you are and where your family came from. Your skin color or tone, does not make you any less beautiful, in fact it enhances. where are you from, move further south. Obviously you are not around allot of black people, in the South, there are millions. People do not understand what they do not know. You are 22, so get up and do something about it. If you really feel so little for yourself, you need help, and FAST!!! Even though you feel so bad and unloved, I can assure you that you are loved. Go talk to someone who loves you, and do it NOW!!!!

Answer 5

You need to find someone to talk to ASAP! beauty comes from inside, without inner beauty, all of the stuff on the outside doesnt matter. Seek professional counseling for your suicide thoughts, and join activities to meet people. Sports, church groups, etc. If your outter beauty is that important to you, and you can afford it, pamper yourself to spa day with makeover included. Surround yourself with happy people. But please dont take your own life. Nothing can be that bad. And just remember, when you think you have life so bad, there IS someone out there that has it worse off. I say that assuming you have your health, your family, friends and I hope you do. good luck

Answer 6

Hello dear!
Have you read any of the Aesop's Fables?
Well, Aesop was a great philosopher who managed to write in some sentences advices for children which are great for every age; we are all children!
Well, if you find his biography, please, read it and publish it!
You will learn and is good for everyone to know that definitely appearance matters, but mostly is the inner strength! Also the heart and logic and brain beauty counts considerably! Have you seen even ugly who have become models" The world is full of them! And when I write models I do not mean for fashion but models for people, heroes, etc.!
Thus, First: the way you write it shows you are not ugly!
Second: based on something negative we can build greatness around us!
Third: Who judge another about beauty? We all think Cleopatra was nice, but it is proved that she was ugly, short, fat, etc., but she had type, class, education, etc. (besides the wealth)!
Ah! if you find any Aesop's biography, please send it to my email address! Thank you!

Answer 7

Maybe it is not the color of your skin but your attitude what drives people away from you. Are you the only black person in your town, in your work, or school????? Probably not.... Try to put more effort in liking yourself more and don't care about what other people think about you. Good luck!!!!

Answer 8

Hi, what gave you the idea that black is ugly.In fact black is beauty.
Eat plenty of Citrus fruits especially Oranges.Can drink lime juice too, but not daily.Your skin will glow.Be neat and smart.I like you!

Answer 9

here is my advice to you my dear, you can not base things on the color of your skin. you must build up your self confidence. if you think highly of yourself, others will begin to feel the same. suicide is a very selfish thing to do.

Answer 10

Oh sweetie don't feel so bad about yourself, I bet you are a wonderful and beautiful person.
We are all here with you.
Take care!