so this girl named maya works @ jamba juice with me. she has a bf, so i never thought much of her. i thought she was cute, but nothing much, cuz she has a bf and all. we became pretty good friends, and always tease each other and such. it turns out her bf left for a vacation last week, and just 3 nights ago she asked to hang out with me. i just said sure, so we did, and then we went places @ night, and after all that, there was nothing else to do, and she didn't want to go home. so i just brougth her to my place, and we played games a lil and stuff, and then we started wrestling and stuff, and i never thought of anything particular of that. then she tells me she likes me, and yeah, no worries we didn't commit any adultary if you were thinking about that heh. but yeah.
so yes, my minds started ticking agian. i've been passively liking her, but thats ok because i knew she has a bf so i never thought about it you know? but now she goes and tells me she likes me and all, and now, wtf?
2006-08-06 08:15:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be careful- you may not have done anything physically with her, but she is betraying him emotionally. And if she can do this to him with you, as soon as someone comes along that takes her attention from you, you'll be the one getting played next. If she's really that unhappy with the bf, she needs to break it off with him before starting something with you, and you need to make it clear that you're too much of a man to move in on another guy's territory. Girls that play with guys' hearts like this give the rest of us a bad name. Approach this situation with caution; it's perfectly OK to like this girl- you can't help who you're attracted to, but if you like her that much, it would be a waste of your time to have to "share" her with someone else. Think of the boyfriend's feelings too, and put yourself in his place... it sucks to be made a fool of that way, and you wouldn't want to be partially responsible for that- it makes YOU look bad. Be careful, and good luck!
2006-08-06 08:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by ?princesshousewife? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you go for her, you should remember that she might do the exact same thing to you when you're her boyfriend. You'll leave for a week or so and come back and she likes another guy. Just be careful, you come first.
2006-08-06 15:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell here she needs to think about what she's doing and if you really like her.. ask her if she wants to break up wiht her BF so that ya'll can have a shot at it??? But that's just me...
2006-08-06 15:21:57 · answer #3 · answered by Stefy G. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to get back to you when she is single. Don't set yourself up to get hurt.
2006-08-06 15:21:50 · answer #4 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how bout u lick my nads biatch!!!!!!!! wat r u like 16 or sumthin? ask mommy for help!!!
2006-08-06 15:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋