My extended family (aunts, cousins, uncles, grandmother) are constently talking badly about my mom, dad, brother, and myself. I have no idea what we did to them, but Im so tired of the way they are...if you ask me, I think their all EVIL people who needs GOD in their life. My mom is such a good woman and I dont understand why they aways have someting negative to say about her. (mind you these people are on my dad's side of the family) When we go on vacations and stuff they always have to object and say something about that...and they are all just waiting on me to do something wrong in my life so they can just laugh @ my dad, my dad has high morals for my brother and myself becasue he sees the type of kids his family has, and their not the best kids in the world, they're all doing wrong in their live. My question is why do you think their like this? I try to keep away from them as much as I can. Why are they so hateful againts myself and my family? thanks..
2006-08-06 07:43:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like your extended family is jealous of your immediate family.......don't let them hurt you! You come from a very loving, stable home life with good morals. Don't let them drag you down. There will always be negative people in this world...keep your distance.....believe me ....you will be much happier! Live your life the way you want to and don't worry about what other people are saying. Life is too short!
2006-08-06 08:18:16 · answer #1 · answered by Bluewillow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have answered part of your question. It sounds as though you have wonderful parents and it sounds as though they have a wonderful loving daughter. Your relatives are obviously very negative and ugly and can not stand that your dad has done so well. What a bunch of vultures!!! You do not have to say anything. Just hold your head high and be thankful that God gave you your father and not one of his siblings to be your parent.
I know it is hurtful, but you can gain strength in time. Even God had a sense of humor when he said "How can you see the splinter in your neighbors eye, when you are walking around with a sequoia tree in your own eye?"
2006-08-06 15:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are taking out all their stress on you guyz,you have did nothing wrong,(I know this is not your question,but I will tell you this any way)You should be nice to them,like tell them good things about themselves and give them gifts,and maybe they will catch the carma and be nice to you.
2006-08-06 14:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by ｡◕‿◕｡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like any other mean people, they are mean to others because it makes them feel bigger and better than they actually are. they are losers
2006-08-08 03:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think positve as you are, and be positive, ignore their hate
2006-08-06 17:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by lax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋