How do you get your man to be more affectionate?

Question

i am overly affectionate and he doesnt like it

it is not that i act as needy. He is not a touchy and feeling person. I do not smother him, because I know he doesn't like it. What I want to know is how to get him to be that way?

Answer 1

Just tell him that he doesn't have to be but to let you be how you want. Don't worry hell come around, it might take time but he will.

Answer 2

His actions are guided by his feelings. The way people treat others is a reflection of how they feel about themselves.
People should take responsibility for their own happiness, not rely on others. Other people don't want the responsibility. You can't make someone feel something, but you can inspire a feeling in someone about themself. Criticism reminds people that you notice their shortcomings. Appreciation shows them that you notice and like their good stuff. Appreciation builds rapport and is contagious.....criticism only conjurs resentments and defensiveness.
His lack of affection indicates he is oblivious to your need to feel wanted, and that he might be a little too self-absorbed. He might not feel he deserves your affection or it may make him feel guilty. Maybe he feels like you are too needy....
If you never wonder about how he feels, never doubt, and question his feelings for you, he is in love with you. It shows in his behavior, not his words. Just like you know your own name, you'll just know it. But if he doesn't, you can't make him. MAybe you should dump him and spend time with someone who does it for you.....

Answer 3

stay within a limit.don't always pounce upon him to be affectionate.
sometimes stay far away from each other so that he may think of u & regret his mistake but don' end pu with some trouble bcoz its ur life.

Answer 4

just try to be so sexy try to dress up so sexy all in all if ur oversexy n u have to know how to make a guy happy n how to treat him

Answer 5

come over to my house.

Answer 6

try offering him, oral or even anal sex