2006-08-06 07:15:56 · 61 answers · asked by ashton 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
ok two observations at this point. I'm not probably not as subtle as I thought I was. And every woman that answered this had big boobs.
2006-08-06 07:26:39 · update #1
Yes, and for some of us it is totally rude. I realize that it can be confusing for guys -- with so many women who get implants because they want you to look and they want the attention... but for those of us who just have big breasts, didn't choose them and don't want the attention from strangers... it is annoying and can be just as humiliating as having any feature you are uncomfortable with repeatedly noticed by insensitive strangers (such as a big crooked nose, a gigantic hairy beer belly, wheelchair, acne or what have you) except that since big breasts are generally considered a positive trait, a lot of guys (and women too) think it is ok to stare, where they would realize it is rude to stare at a fat person, a disabled person etc.
Why don't you guys save your looking for women who apparently enjoy having strangers stare at their boobs -- such as hooters waitresses, strippers, bikini models, Maxim Hot 100 girls, your girlfriend, cheerleaders, Vegas showgirls, porn stars etc.
A lot of us normal women on the street with big breasts (even if we are young and relatively hot) are wives and mothers -- would you want some weirdo oogling your mom's or wife's big boobs? I think that most guys wouldn't, so they should be careful who's wife or mom's boobs they are looking at.
2006-08-06 07:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Heather L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because that's what they think men want (and some do). Have a look at the women on commercials, on the covers of magazines, everywhere- constantly we are sold this idea that the 'ideal woman' has a figure like an anorexic 18-year-old with beach balls duct-taped to her chest (okay, I'm exaggerating a bit, but still). It's disgusting- both the image, and the way society forces it into our heads. That said, I don't think there's anything wrong with a naturally large bust. Or a naturally small one, either. We need to start telling each other that it's okay just to be yourself.
2016-03-27 01:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all, let me get something straight for all of you ignorant people out there. Not ALL women get breast implants because they want to be stared at. That is the stupidest remark I have ever heard, and you, who wrote that, know who you are. Secondly...just because you work at Hooter's, are a model on a man's magazine, or are an exotic dancer, it ALSO DOESN'T mean that you want men or anyone to stare at your breasts. For some it's an assest...If you were a carpenter, wouldn't you want a top quality hammer? If you were a truck driver, wouldn't you want a top-of-the-line cab? So don't be an idiot! There are some women who fit the catagory you describe, but not many. I am a woman who has a wonderful natural "rack." and yes, I do know when someone is staring, even through sunglasses. After years of being in tune to body actions, when a man is wearing sunglasses, he will take certain pauses in conversation, and speak in a certain manner...this is when he is looking. The complexity of being able to stare and concentrate while speaking and thinking are to profound for the general population...sorry to say it! If a woman, as i have done, pretends to not know that you are looking, consider yourself lucky. But I have told too many men I have spoke to that my face was "up here," and not at my chest. And one last thing...PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE don't try to impress us by saying something juvenile and selfish such as wow, they are incredible, or anything to that manner.
2006-08-06 08:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by alimon72 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, because it is so obviously. Those guys have no shame. I mean it is obvious the guys want their own boobs to be that big. I mean c'mon! Fakies are too hard to buy at a gag store. Go and get some and get over it!
2006-08-06 07:21:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course!!! And unless we get surgery, we don't choose our cup size. Someone else pointed out that if another woman is with you, she'll notice too - very true!!! I notice when a guy I'm with looks at another woman, and I notice when I'm getting looked at by a guy who is already with another woman. That's not good for the guy....
2006-08-06 07:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by locolady98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they just assume everyone is always looking. I'm not into big boobs, but they're just a freak of nature and you can't help it. It's like trying to not look at a car accident. You want to look away buy you can't.
2006-08-06 07:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and we have always wondered what the big deal is with boobs and American men, especially.
2006-08-06 07:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask if they are use to it. I used to work with a woman that said most men there didnt know what she looked like because they never look up at her.
2006-08-06 07:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by Josh S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I can tell right off the bat if a guy is looking me in the face when chatting or if he's talking to my chest. Just because we're overly-endowed doesn't mean we're blind!
2006-08-06 07:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by WhyAskWhy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, women with small boobs know it too. Heck, even women with almost NO boobs know it.*** They know where your eyes are going.
***and sometimes, just for a change, those boobless beauties can be SEXY! So don't think no one looks at them!
2006-08-07 13:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Hermit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋