2006-08-06 07:11:57 · 30 answers · asked by traciesummers 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
both bride and groom should decide... it is their wedding.. and it should be something that both likes...
2006-08-06 07:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
well both the bride and groom choose the place where the wedding is.and they both pick the color (s) of the wedding. about the only thing the bride should get to pick is the dress she's going to where and how many bridesmaids and who the maid of honor is going to be. and if the groom absolutely doesn't care about where it or the color (s) of the wedding then the Birdie can choose.But only if the groom really doesn't care where of what they are. good luck
2006-08-06 14:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By "the girl" do you mean the bride? The people paying for the wedding generally get to pick the location, but usually in consultation with the bride and groom. Generally, the choice of color is the bride's, especially since most men are uninterested in that detail. But they should both agree. If the bride and groom are having difficulty settling on the details of the wedding, they might consider putting it off until they can learn to compromise.
2006-08-06 14:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Fall Down Laughing 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Weddings are more important to the brides than the grooms. For most women, I believe that their wedding is probably the most important day of their whole life aside from their own birth. So I think that her wedding should be completely her way except for the liquor department. The groom has all rights to that aspect. After all he is the one who will be enjoying the liquor the most.
2006-08-06 14:21:24 · answer #4 · answered by absolute genious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and no. The bride *and* groom have the say. The parents can have some say if they are paying for the wedding. It's not just the bride's decision just as, contrary to some answers, it's not solely *her* day. The groom and the guests have to come into consideration. Any bride who stomps her feet and screams about it being *her* day and refuses to compromise, mind as well be green, have big teeth, and breathe fire - Bridezilla.
2006-08-06 18:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl being the bride? She usually does. In some cultures I know the bride has almost nothing to do with the wedding - all she does is show up! But in American culture in most cases the bride makes almost every decision!
2006-08-06 16:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a wedding is a very special day for both the bride and groom. Because of this they should come to an agreement; what color do they both like, where is a good place to have the wedding, who they invite, what they eat, ect... make your wedding the best for both of you.
2006-08-06 14:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems to me that if the guy is into that sort of thing, then he should have some input.
In the "old days," many men just were too busy to get involved with that decision and left it to their fiancee, but if a man really has preferences, then of course his input should be considered.
Joint decsions make sense so that both members of the couple feel happy and comfortable with the decisions made.
2006-08-06 14:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless the groom and his family are footing 100% of the bill, then the bride ABSOLUTELY has a right to influence the process.
And even IN such a case, aren't you supposed to be wanting this woman as an equal partner in your life? I mean, you're getting married, not buying a slave!
2006-08-06 14:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most definitely......but I would think she would want some input from the fiance. Usually the guys don't care that much and are happy to go along with what she wants. Why, is there a problem? If you are not the bride, sweetie, Butt Out!
2006-08-06 14:17:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!
A wedding, like the marriage that follows, is about cooperation, give and take, and mediation....let her pick certain things (especially if you have trouble matching clothes), but the wedding location should be mutual decision
2006-08-06 14:15:40 · answer #11 · answered by Dwight D J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋