2006-08-06 07:07:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust, love, happiness.......
2006-08-06 07:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by cOme_Fly_wiTh_mE 3 · 12⤊ 7⤋
There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation.
NO POINTING FINGERS
We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves.
If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
NO OVERPOWERING
Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character."
It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness.
It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
RIGHT SPEECH
There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party.
A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you."
Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
PERSONAL PERCEPTION
Different people have different perception. One man's meat could be another man's poison.You can never have everyone praise you, nor will everyone condemn you. Never in the past, not at present, and never will be in the future.
Thus, do not be too bothered by others words if our conscience is clear..
PATIENCE.
Think the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge.
People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever.
Consider and put into practice and it will make your life meaningful in touching peoples lives.
God Bless.
2006-08-06 14:27:22 · answer #2 · answered by cascadingrainbows 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual Compatability, personal chaos. physical attractiveness. These are the least important things in a relationship but ironically they are the most important of the things people cannot change about themselves.
2006-08-06 14:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that two people may truly care for each other. Honesty toward each other. To be able to share laughs, smiles, good feelings, and good times together. To love to love. To feel brand new everytime you hug or kiss. To say alot to each other without saying a word.
2006-08-06 14:13:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you would consider each others feelings.There would have to be trust, And the best of all there would have to be Love.
2006-08-06 14:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No meu relacionamento o que mais consta é carca as bolas na cara dela , e gozar na tetinha direita dela todo dia .
Lembramos q tudos nois o mundo sabe um bejo.
2006-08-06 14:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by ZOrBa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust and honesty would tie for number one....those are the foundations of any long lasting relationship.
2006-08-06 14:11:15 · answer #7 · answered by tim b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God grant me courage to change the things I can,
The serenity to know the things, I can not change,
And the wisdom to hide the bodies of those I had to kill because they pissed me off...
LOL
2006-08-06 14:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by Richo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, respect, compatibility.
2006-08-06 14:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by regis_cabral 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust , if you don't have that the bottom will fall out.
2006-08-06 14:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money affection age life style sex lol and most important is he reliable and responsible
2006-08-06 14:12:18 · answer #11 · answered by david b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋