2006-08-06 07:04:29 · 19 answers · asked by stonegirl1998 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Don't make a big deal of it or he will think the naked body is bad. He is just curious. Ask him if he has any questions. Then forget about it.
2006-08-06 07:09:15 · answer #1 · answered by weswe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, were they loose photos lying around? Were they on a computer, or in a magazine? Where did he get them? Were they given to him by somebody else? Need some more info.
Did they just show nakedness, or was any sexual activity involved?
Tell him that you don't want him to look at pictures like that, but don't give him the impression that there is anything wrong or dirty about nudity.
I would not make an overly big issue about it; just try to see that it doesn't happen again.
2006-08-06 07:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple curiosity. If you don't want him to do it anymore, make sure he has no access to such pictures. But curiosity is natural, and making him think he did something wrong or dirty will tend to increase his curiosity.
Best to make no big deal about it, either with him OR in your own mind.
Seeing nudity does not harm children in any way, although the negative responses from adults can confuse them or make them more curious, or have a negative effect on how they view their own bodies. If you have a bunch of emotion about it, it will tend to either peak his interest or make him think it's dirty.
If it was actual pornography (sexual acts, not simply nudity) you might want to make sure he has the chance to ask questions if he wants to, and give him straightforward, simple answers. Children should NOT be viewing pornography of course, but simple nudity has never been shown to be harmful to children of any age.
I'm halfway joking about this following part, but -- maybe if he's curious he would enjoy an art book! There are lots of famous paintings and statues of nude men and women! But basically I would just let it go.
2006-08-06 07:20:08 · answer #3 · answered by mellexical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't overreact. If you get mad then he'll know this is something he could use later.
Sit him down for a talk. Explain private parts to him. Then explain how these parts need to be kept private. Answer any questions he has.
Please keep the pictures out of his reach and put a chilld block on the internet.
2006-08-06 07:11:32 · answer #4 · answered by Justic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids are curious little creatures... the more you make of it, the more trouble it could be for you and him..... take it easy and just go with the flow.... ask him why he was looking ? ask him what he thinks about what he saw ? ask him if there is anything he feels he needs to know about what he saw ?? be casual and talk in words he can relate to..... open and honest.... if he is looking, he is thinking.... they get active very young these days.... this is your chance to start a good relationship, an open one, a relationship very few moms and sons have, with him.... so do it right and it will last a life time...... also let him know that it is ok to talk to you, but you prefere it NOT to be spoken of out side the house, until he is older !!! God bless
2006-08-06 07:12:32 · answer #5 · answered by Annie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with weswe. If you make a big deal over it, he's just going to find more ways to find and look at them. I think it's a natural thing for a boy to be curious as he is. If it happens again I'd ask him if he had any questions. If he does.. answer them but I wouldn't push the issue
2006-08-06 07:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a younger brother who looks at naked pictures as well. Tell him it is dirty and how he reacts when seeing people in the movies kiss. If he says that kissing is disgusting, then you can say that looking at naked pictures is even worse and it promotes disgusting situations.
2006-08-06 08:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by blingding 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he thought of them. Give him a chance to be honest. Then don't make a big deal of it, but impress upon him that this is not something for young boys of seven to be looking at.
2006-08-06 07:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by quikzip7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him it its not a good thing to be looking at naked pictures. and explain to him y. punish him how you would if he did anything else bad and put a parental block on that website (if it was on the internet)
2006-08-06 07:07:45 · answer #9 · answered by horseluvr215 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naked pictures of men or women? If he was looking a naked women be happy, if he was looking at naked men, be sad.. you won't be a grandmother anytime soon.
2006-08-06 07:11:20 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋