Like if a friend dates someone that you know for a fact is still seeing their ex now & again for casual sex & has generally just crushed the confidence out of her so she only believes the bull he tells her & won't listen to someone she's known for ... jeez all her born life?!
guess im just trying to find out why friends cease to exist once a lover comes on the scene?
2006-08-06 07:01:20 · 14 answers · asked by tjstarbe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is blind, but it will wear off and then she'll have you, her good friend to turn to, and she'll remember what you told her and realize that you were right. Just continue to be there for her when she finally returns to her right mind.
2006-08-06 07:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there couple of time, is weird because you will find any excuse in the book to explain the others persons behaviour, no matter how horrible they are, then one day something just clicks in your head and you suddenly see what others see. Not sure if it about love being blind, sometimes can be a matter of pride, not wanting to admit you have made a mistake, even to yourself so you then try and do everything to fix it.
Take my advice, if a close friend tells you someone is wrong for you, believe them, close friends will know better than anyone when you are being taken for a fool.
2006-08-06 14:31:04 · answer #2 · answered by fletcheyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I have a friend who gets like that. Every time! with every girl! My husband and I used to try to tell him, now we have to just say, Well guess we won't be seeing him for a while! We came up with a term. "Poopbutted" He's poopbutted again! Or, he's all poopbutted over that girl.
2006-08-06 14:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The persons in love, so they're basically blind to anyhting their friends say. give them some proof the guys with his ex before its too late! Some girls really need to get some standards!
2006-08-06 14:08:41 · answer #4 · answered by drummerboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B/c sometimes when your in love with someone it seems easier to put up with whatever they throw at you than to face the fact that you shouldn't be with them anymore. It's hard to let go.
2006-08-06 14:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...same thing with love..... once they think they are in love.. they feel that they should trust each other 100%.. nothing you could do.. u can tell them but if they choose not to believe.. they are the only ones to suffer the consequences...
2006-08-06 14:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why friends caese to exist but i guess its cause they r so wraped up in there bf or gf,thet they forget there real friends,well she or he will be in need of a true friend if things go wrong.so hang tight.
2006-08-06 14:10:20 · answer #7 · answered by woudstok 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are her friend, you will back off and respect her decisions. You said your piece..now zip the lip. Trust me, she will find out soon enough......then be supportive, don't say "I told you so" and move on!
2006-08-06 14:06:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why the saying, " Love is Blind" is so appropriate.
2006-08-06 14:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sex fries your brain.
2006-08-06 14:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋