ok can anyone give me a good explanation so i can tell my uncle that masturbation is normal for teenagers...he made his son (my cousin)feel really bad and quilty for doing it...i know for a fact its normal...please dont be mean...he told his mom he feels dirty and doesnt want to live no more...im looking it in the internet but stupid porn things pop up and i wanna know if anyone can just tell me where to go so i can print it out and show him its not wrong..
2006-08-06 06:38:43 · 12 answers · asked by mommy217 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
my cousin is 15
2006-08-06 06:46:45 · update #1
he told his father he did it....his father doesnt live with him
2006-08-06 06:47:45 · update #2
my cousin does not do it infront of people or anywhere public
2006-08-06 06:51:38 · update #3
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/sex-education/HQ00547
2006-08-06 06:43:14 · answer #1 · answered by Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masterbation is very normal. Nothing your cousin should be embrassed or ashamed of. Every person does it....if someone says they dont they are lying...
Masturbation is the self-stimulation of the genitals to achieve sexual arousal and pleasure, usually to the point of orgasm (sexual climax). It is commonly done by touching, stroking or massaging the penis or clitoris until an orgasm is achieved. Some women also use stimulation of the vagina to masturbate or use "sex toys," such as a vibrator.
Just about everybody. Masturbation is a very common behavior, even among people who have sexual relations with a partner. In one national study, 95% of males and 89% of females reported that they have masturbated. Masturbation is the first sexual act experienced by most males and females. In young children, masturbation is a normal part of the growing child's exploration of his or her body. Most people continue to masturbate in adulthood, and many do so throughout their lives.
While it once was regarded as a perversion and a sign of a mental problem, masturbation now is regarded as a normal, healthy sexual activity that is pleasant, fulfilling, acceptable and safe. It is a good way to experience sexual pleasure and can be done throughout life.
Masturbation is only considered a problem when it inhibits sexual activity with a partner, is done in public, or causes significant distress to the person. It may cause distress if it is done compulsively and/or interferes with daily life and activities.
I hope this helps :)
2006-08-06 06:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar_Plumzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Seems like someone hasn't explored their otherside or is really from the old school, lol. Don't worry since you have sense and a head on your shoulders, you must stay patient and give your same understanding thru him. Yes its very uncomfortable to talk about sex as well as religion, politics, and other beliefs that tap a moral boundary. You must present you information to your family and let them understand for themself without drawing opposing sides. Sex used to be nasty and sinful, now its more exploited into expression, exploring, and some even say an art such as karma sutra. I have the perfect info to get you started in preparing you small report on masturbation. Type in this address and you will find information from an intellectual, professional, and social aspect of masturbation without thousands of porn popups. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Masturbation . Type that and your on your way. You must now find a way to present it and give your son comfort. Try explaining more about birds and bees, having privacy as an adult, and teach about the bad parts of it also. Good luck and happy parenting.
2006-08-06 06:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by carolinakres 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal for a teen to masturbate. The best thing to do is just make sure they know that there are appropriate times and places to do this type of behavior.
2006-08-06 06:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him his father is uncomfortable with his sexuality because he's a closet homosexual and his only way to feel better about himself is to make him feel bad about doing something thats perfectly natural, tell your uncle thats what you think too and your cousin will probably join in in the making fun of his father
2006-08-06 06:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Hans B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have been doing it where his father could see which is wrong. He can do it privately. Also, lots of people grow up perfectly healthy without it.
2006-08-06 06:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as a parent I hate to think about my kids doing that but yes it is normal...and far better for them to masturbate than go have actual sex with another person at that age too...
2006-08-06 06:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by CF_ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur cuzin the challenge makes it more rewarding & dont get caught again!
ur uncle sounds like constipated prick.
2006-08-06 06:48:19 · answer #8 · answered by enord 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-06 06:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes surf net with SEARCH ....MASTURBATION.,IF U CANNOT THEN IM ME .,I WILL HELP
2006-08-06 06:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by doctor asho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋