he really likes me,
and is constantly messaging me and such.
i'm too nice of a person to just say,
"can you stop messaging me?"
do you guys have any advice?
thanks.
-alex.
2006-08-06 06:28:04 · 26 answers · asked by Alexx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should let him down firmly, yet gently. don't be rude or hurt his ego. tell him you're involved with someone, or interested in someone else... "you're a nice person, and i'm flattered that you are interested in me, but i just don't feel the same chemistry. there's someone else i'm interested in right now..." it's always best to be kind, and not attack him personally or find fault with him. good luck!
2006-08-06 06:33:07 · answer #1 · answered by Laurie V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him the truth, that you don't like him. I prefer it when I get told the truth then to be lied to.
Or just don't answer the messages. After a while he will get the picture.
There's no easy way of doing it. So just get it over and done with. Tell him the truth. Just make sure you don't hurt his feeling. You can also just tell him you would rather just be friends, he might not feel as bad that way.
2006-08-06 06:33:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get the message across to him is simply to tell him. Instead of telling him in person, message him back and tell him that you would greatly appreciate it if he would stop. I know that sounds harsh, but he is not going to stop until you tell him straight out how you feel.
2006-08-06 06:31:40 · answer #3 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You would be a still nicer person if you were straight-forward with him and just told him you're not interested.
Think how he'll feel later, when he realises what an idiot he's been making of himself! Be kind and give him the gift of walking away with some dignity. You'll feel better too.
2006-08-06 06:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by Claudia G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to say "stop messaging me" and make sure he is blocked, or just block him.
If you want him to be a friend, then you have to be straight forward and tell him to stop.
If you never want to hear from him again, you have to be blunt and slam the door.
If you don't learn to say NO, you're not being nice, just a sap.
2006-08-06 06:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by noone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be polite and dont say it too directly as the other users said...if you are nice you arent going to be able to do that..so, try stop answering the phone and let him know that you are dating someone else...that way he´s gonna stop calling
2006-08-06 06:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by miliscal123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the courage to say that you don't want to hear from him. Let him know that you don't like what he does. This will save both of you wasted time and frustration.
If he won't listen, then you get a protection order. Simple as that.
2006-08-06 06:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, there is the first time for everything. At least tell him to stop. Think about it, what is him to keep bothering you. It definitely sounds like he's gay and you are so not. So confront him and tell him what's on your mind and why he needs to stop. Do this for yourself. I hope this would help you alot.
2006-08-06 06:33:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys tell each other straight out to stop. If not, you are acting gay. Start shaking your leg like a dog in heat and tell him that he is getting you excited. If he doesn't laugh and jump away, tell him to get lost.
2006-08-06 06:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Cowboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O BOY!!!! Tell him that he is a very nice guy and all but your just the type of person im looking for.
You could also block him!
2006-08-06 06:31:50 · answer #10 · answered by xotiptoesox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋