I think we men spoil them way to much..
What do you think?
2006-08-06 06:10:04 · 36 answers · asked by maniac 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because some men are too immature, under-educated or drunk so the woman needs to take charge to keep the roof over their heads.
2006-08-06 06:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We men have got what we asked for, by being lazy, sorry, and stupid in general.
If we're going to keep our pants on, we need use our common sense and wear a belt. I see far too many young men taking their belts off, not coming to schol with a belt, letting their pants hang down and show their ***. This goes to show young men are not being schooled to be real men.
If a man is going to maintain discipline, be a strong head of household, he must gain the trust and respect of his family by his words and actions. He cannot just expect to ber respected by tradition alone. He has to look deep into his own tradition and gather the wisdom of the ages. Then he has to apply it even handedly.
A tyrant, an arrogant and demanding man cannot expect to keep order in his household. If he tries, he will only inspire fear and dislike. This kind of thing only promotes cheating and lies from the others. A good head of household is loved for the love and and care and protection that he gives.
2006-08-06 06:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're right -- I wear the pants and the husband knows it. But I am not spoiled, unless by him always being me expensive stuff all the time, doing the food shopping, the lawn, laundry and he even does light house work......... Maybe I am a tad spoiled (I guess I just give really good head)
2006-08-06 06:24:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are just saying that sh.it. They really are going thru things emotionally within that challenges them to say they are tougher, stronger, more responsible, or more of a leader than a man. THere are alot of men declining in character and alot of woman becoming stronger and stronger. So now, women think most men are weak, dumb, simple, or lazy. They think they have us all figured out since they are doing something spectacular and really wanna rub it in a mans face, insulting his manhood. By attacking manhood, they think they are dominant and will feel the best feeling of self-security and independence. It won't happen for a long time and just make sure she doesn't step on your toes in the house... her job description is team civilizer, secretary, caretaker, housekeeper, and lover. IF she pushes any of that to you, i bet you'll feel insulted, lol. You must keep them happy by rewarding when good and explaining when wrong. Keep woman happy as they are the key to male sanity and Men are keys to females security. Good luck and take care!
2006-08-06 06:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by carolinakres 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On the contrary, my friend... A woman that gets enough attention will not 'wear your pants' .... unless she thinks they're sexy.
I think you need to spoil your woman, seriously. And I mean go all out, man... don't be stingy.
Maybe if you treated her like a partner, actually, instead of a slave, she'll let you be the boss... Right now, asn far as I can tell you're just a visitor in your home and try to make the rules as you go...
Naughty, naughty!!! Seriously, dude, you're doing something wrong.
Reality check, please!!!
2006-08-06 06:14:50 · answer #5 · answered by Pivoine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men let the woman wear the pants. They like being bossed around and yelled at. They need to be told what to do. They need direction. Do you have a problem with this?
2006-08-06 06:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by windandwater 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about you...but I love to spoil my wife...she is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me...and I love her for it. Without women...we wouldn't be here
Women should have all the rights men do and secretly, they run everything anyway...they just let men think we run stuff, when in actuality, we don't.
2006-08-06 06:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Arthur Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pretty much am the boss in this family. I am not spoiled that is just the way it is. He was in charge and didnt know what the hell he was doing so I took over.
2006-08-08 05:36:47 · answer #8 · answered by Tina 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the man's personality....
if he's a wimpy dork that takes a back seat to everything, then the woman has to step up and wear the pants.
I have no respect for a man with no back bone!
Also, some women are dominate and overbearing, and if the man puts up with that type, it's his choice.
I don't like these type of women either.
There should be balance and equality in a marriage/relationship
2006-08-06 06:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because either the men are not in the household, or they are too wimpy to take care of business. Therefore, we have to "wear the pants"
I would love to sit back and allow the man to take care of business, but very few of you actually know how....
2006-08-06 06:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because technically women do run the household and the world even if superficially ppl might think that men do
Women are the puppeteers and men the puppets
2006-08-06 06:14:59 · answer #11 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋