but what if he doesn't want to get back together what do I do?
2006-08-06 06:02:01 · 37 answers · asked by ashley silva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
let him know how you feel.
2006-08-12 13:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey if he broke up with you there is usually a reason..Find out what the reason is..If its another girl then maybe you should move on, he isnt ready for someone with such strong feelings then...If you ask him and he cant give you an answer then tell him ok I love you but, I'm worth more then this and find a new guy or something to entertain your mind away from him...Like answering questions on yahoo questions....ITs helpful to see and read that others have the same problems and thoughts as you...Good Luck
2006-08-12 06:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by mari p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, love yourself first. Move on. You might feel like **** at the moment but life is still going on. Have a good cry, then go have a makeover, an all girls out, anything that will make you happy. Never think it's your fault. Just think it's part of the long lesson of life. You'll be okay. Just to let you know that you'll have a friend if you need one.
2006-08-06 06:15:12 · answer #3 · answered by etang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its like this this certains situation happened between me and my lady about 2 years ago. i was hurt and it pissed me off and the more i was hurt the more mean i got and all it did was push her away. so here is what i did. i started being like i was when we first met sweet doin everything for her letting her know that no matter where we are in our relationship friendship what ever it may be i will always be there for her. i gave her her space and occasionally sat down and tried to talk to her about getting back together and eventually after all that we went through he have been together every since. we are both happy and we our about to have our 2nd child together. just basically let him know how you feel, work through the problems and try to talk and not fight. best wishes and good luck
2006-08-06 06:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by nclorenz1978 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends why he broke up with you for. if you have no idea, just ask him and tell him you want an answer. tell him you want to work it out and that you really like him and enjoy spending time with him and you just want him. it's better to say what you really feel towards them rather for it to end and you not being able to let him know how you felt. cause that is the worst feeling ever. not knowing if it would've at least help in your relationship. I've broken up with my bf 3 times and him with me twice for stupid stuff. but w'e've gotten back. it's been 6 years and now we're engaged. hope this works. good luck
2006-08-06 06:12:59 · answer #5 · answered by black_metal_mist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that this is tough for you but dont try to get him back at all. If he really loved you he would never have given you up in the first place. If it was meant to be he will see the errors of his ways and beg you to come back to him. Dont give him the satisfaction of begging HIM to come back to you. youre better then that. In the meantime go out with friends and meet some other cuties. remember theirs plenty of fish n that sea!
2006-08-06 06:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by cutie pie! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suck it up. Get a good cry in to get it out your system. Take some time for you to do something independently...hobby, read a book, spend time with friends and family, play sports, exercise, write in a journal, whatever you like. Move on. Don't run back. He won't respect you and if he did take you back, you will have lost his respect. His treatment of you will reflect that. Better things are in store for you, but you have to be ready and willing to receive them.
2006-08-06 06:06:35 · answer #7 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon move on there is others that will respect the real you
if you had a fight apoligize
but if he broke it off he was not worth haveing in the first place
think about it there's a lot of cute guys out there shop around hon your young hell play the feild before you settle down with one idiot
you might find a few more ya like
2006-08-06 06:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off he should have explained why he broke up with you. so if you think you can or indeed want to change to fit his requirements then tell him you are willing to change.
however be prepared as he had his reasons for dumping you and so he may not want to get back with you.
In the event he does not want to get back with you then you just have to try hard to forget him and move on to a guy who will love you for you and wants to be with the real you without you having to change anything about yourself.
to be honest here I'd seriously advise you to just forget him without trying to get back with him. he sounds like a loser to just dump you in the first place.
2006-08-06 06:09:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves u, he will contact u sooner or later.
if he doesnt call u?? don waste ur time hoping. tell yourself, ''i am such a good gal, u will regret someday.nobody is gonna treat u so nice like me do''. and move on.
u should be happy that he left u cos your mr right is coming soon.
take up some hobbies or classes to divert away the sadness
2006-08-06 06:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by mmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to get back with him!!!!! If he really wanted to get back with you he wouldn't have broken up with you in the first place.
Move on. Do something with your life. Are you gonna just feel bad for the rest of your life or are you gonna get up and do somethin' that's worth your time?
2006-08-06 06:05:23 · answer #11 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋