Women: What do you look for in a guy and what turns you on to like them?

Answer 1

For me it's kindness, intelligence, and emotional and financial well-being (not rich but can hold a steady job making more than 30k a year, a decent provider), mental stability, a good self esteem, but not cocky and not macho...I have learned in my life that these are the things that matter most to me and the kind of guys I fall head over heals in love with. My turn offs are guys that aren't very intelligent, guys that think they're always right, guys who try to run my life or tell me what to do, guys who are overprotective, shy guys, I'm also a little shallow and don't like short skinny guys that have low self esteem and try to buy their way into my heart, I had a boyfriend like that when I was a teen whose parents won the lottery and bought me roses every day and lots of other stuff, I first got with him cuz he had a supervisor position at a young age and seemed mature, but after I got to know him he was a total turnoff and I had to break up with him. But my grandparents loved him lol
anyway she should like you for who you are.

Answer 2

Funny guys. They will pretty much always get the girl. A mixture of humor, confidence, intelligence, and compassion will be the biggest catch around, even if he's not so hot appearance wise. What's great is that if a girl is attracted to the guy's personality, he'll start becoming physically attractive to her too.

Answer 3

Charm & a scence of humer is nice , Not cheep charm but , well I dont know how to explaing real charm , you either have it or you don't . I once dated a guy that everything he said was either a title or lyric of a song or a line in a movie .Once I caught on to this I knew what cheep charm was His favorite movie is Pulp fiction Thinks he's Travolta & at times The Fonz Turns out he's more of a potsie (happy day's ) .. We live & learn

Answer 4

I like to see someone who is confident and not afraid to take the lead, someone who is willing to have fun and joke around, but also someone who isnt afraid to show his gf to his guy friends and hug and kiss her infornt of them...what turns me on is loving & fun personality, great smile, and well groomed.

Answer 5

I don't look for anything inparticular. It's how the guy makes me feel. If I feel giddy inside when he talks to me or looks at me, that's a sign for me. It turns me on for him to notice the little things and mention it to me. Basically, good attention.

Answer 6

I dont know, different things in different guys, some can be personality and others can be physical. What gets me most is a guy that can make me laugh.

Answer 7

i like a guy that doesnt judge a girl by their looks and that likes her for herself.i also like a guy that has a good attitude in general.i also like it when guys give girls alot of one on one attention.also a guy thats funny and likes to party.i also like it when guys are just like you talking to another girl and they understand what a girl likkes

Answer 8

well it depends on what kinda girl you like or date some like thugs like me others like pretty boys,some like nerds,others like as$$holes cause a guy can be too nice and no one likes a guy who is to nice but just try to be yourself.

Answer 9

I think is da eyes ,lips(smile),shape,height,and personality

Answer 10

the personality....the good lookin....the lovely smile...his lovin heart...bein good with us...know what does it mean 2 be a gentleman...carin...polite...interestin....funny...love sports...sexy...love kids...patient.....cute...kind...not nervous...hud me when im cryin...be a true man