sex to my b/f is just jumping right into it. i on the other hand want to play around. even when we jump into sex hes not even hard. what can i do about this? im going to talk to him but i want to hear what u guys think too?
2006-08-06 05:55:18 · 12 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plus he can usually tell if im not enjoying it so sometimes i just stop because its not worth going on if im not getting my needs met too.
2006-08-06 06:16:26 · update #1
You just answer you own question talk to him. slow him down make him work for it. make a game of it. play hard to get.
2006-08-06 06:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how you feel about this. He should respect your feelings about sex. Some men think sex is the actual act, and not the foreplay. However, it is a combination of both. If you are too shy to let him know verbally, just take control and show him. That should do the trick.
Good luck :P
2006-08-06 13:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by tiggerluv252000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he needs to preheat the oven before putting the cookies in. He needs to quit being so selfish, and needs to think about u too. U should tie him down, tease the **** out of him, then leave. It will teach him a very important lesson.
2006-08-06 13:07:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
duck tape him to the floor when hes sleeping wake him up and start screaming the house is on fire scare the living sh*t out of him and then laugh your a*s off as your walking outside and slamming the door. leave him in there for a while. Then come back in undo him and tell him if the sex doesn't get better your going to staple his balls to his forehead. =]
2006-08-06 13:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by lil_island_grl316@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that means u guys are losing interest in each otha or hes losing the interests into u so jus try some new positions do sumthin romantic stuff like that
2006-08-06 13:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the he11 is wrong with him, he might be a homo, I would jump right on his face before he could jump on me with a softy. I feel sorry for you...ive never had that problem....
2006-08-06 13:01:45 · answer #6 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate when they jump in soft
2006-08-06 13:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by ♥tk♦star♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 him
its fun playin around!!!!
but talk to him
sometimes women like 2 take control
2006-08-06 13:00:13 · answer #8 · answered by yasmeen q* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the lead.... inform your man you need foreplay! Stop giving him what he needs, if he is not meeting your needs!
2006-08-06 13:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lady D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Sex for 3 days and after wards, explain how you'd like things done.
"Say what you mean, mean what you say...but don't say it mean".
2006-08-06 13:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋