My bf of 4 months just called and said that his gf and her daughter from another state is coming in town to take him out to dinner. (whatever, right?) He said that he has told her about me and that he is moving in with me at some point, but she continues to come in town at least once a week. she usually doesn't stay long. I have been in love with him for 10 years (we dating previously), but I am so fed up with this nonsense. He is very popular and wanted by LOTS of women in our town. When I play his little game of men want me too, he gets extremely jealous. How do I say or show him its me or all the other girls I am fed up, without sounding like a jealous, controlling, possessive freak. I am not any of these, I believe that you should be able to have friends of the opposite sex, but when is enough, enough??
2006-08-06 05:49:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Geez Just be honest with him. Tell him it is you or the highway. Then show him that yoru bigger than all this. I know that in your heart he is the one. This is life,but you might want to check the World as I know there are lots of "men" out here. Please just make sure you are comfortable with yourself. You will find that many people say they don't mind for there bf or gf to have friends of the oposite sex but who knows where that starts and where it ends but the two involved. If he truely loved you he would not have to look else where. If people are not satified at home then they tend to look somewhere else. Know what you are wanting in a man and what you don't want. For the most part don't comprise. That is for when you have the one you really want. I hope that this doesn't hurt your feelings. But if he is wanted by all the rest of the women it seems to me that he is the one that is at fault here.
2006-08-06 06:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by grill101@sbcglobal.net 1 · 18⤊ 2⤋
Girlfriend, communication is the best tool here. Sit down and talk to him. Let him know your views over this coz it is not a good idea for him to be having "dinner" with the other woman when you are alrready in the picture
2006-08-06 12:58:05 · answer #2 · answered by Miss M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is a way to not sound that way. I think u need to be honest with him. Tell him exactly how u feel, or if ur not good at expressing ur feelings, write or type them down. It is not going to be good for u to stay in this relationship, if all it does is make u upset.
Good luck to ya
hope for the best
2006-08-06 12:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Mikey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to be with a guy who is dating another woman? If he really cared about you at all there would be no question about it. No body deserves that go out and find you a real man..
2006-08-06 12:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋