Do you think gals will only make love with guys because of love and guys have sex with gals because of sex ?
2006-08-06 05:47:32 · 23 answers · asked by engineerpig 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not really, sometimes both guys and gals do it for money as well as sex. very subjective.
2006-08-06 05:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read something on this in a magazine not to long ago. A survey was done and the results were pretty typical I'd imagine. For men the bonding experience happens during sex. They will feel closer to a woman after sex where as a woman may just have casual sex with a man and not feel that closeness more often than not. They need more than sex to bond. The real question is what women need to feel close to a guy? Still this is a good reference to show how much different men and women trully are.
2006-08-06 13:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Palmdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It goes both ways. Girls have sexual urges like guys do. People have different ways to implement and/or disguise their true intentions. Seems like girls will have sex if love is part of the plan, but its not always the case. Many (most) guys do the same- does anybody really want to have sex just for the sex of it?
It the most physically intimate and close act that people can have together. Ideally, I believe that people want love before sex- it's just that love is much harder to find.
2006-08-06 12:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by ••Mott•• 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question...I agree, most girls tend to believe sex and love are one and the same. For guys this is rare.
The second question.. there are gals out there that will have sex for the fun of it, or for money so NO, they dont "ONLY make love because of love".
2006-08-06 12:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. Generally both are looking for intimacy, men try to achieve this through sex, and women get sex through intimacy. However women have needs too. Just like guys are. Most girls can keep up with me pretty well. And I have a good libido, my gf and I usually go at it 4-5 times a day or so.
-Duo
2006-08-06 12:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by Duo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have the entire saying f**ked up.
It's 'men give love for sex, women give sex for love'
and I think it is a gross generalization and assumes to know something about women's sexuality. I think it may often be the case, but not nearly is it the general rule.
Women have sex for LOTS of reasons (money, love, horny, want a baby).
AND
Men just might GIVE love because they actually FEEL love.
2006-08-06 12:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read once that women give sex to get love and men give love to get sex. Although I don't think that's true all the time, I think it's sad that a lot of times it is.
2006-08-06 12:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not entirely true. but most often than not this is the case. or so i'm inclined to believe. however, there are numerous cases of women sleeping around, changing partners whenever they like it. nevertheless, there is some truth to what you said. More often women make love and guys just have sex.
2006-08-06 12:53:23 · answer #8 · answered by jepoidavid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not always true. for most of my life I had sex buddies (i.e. friends with benefits) and i just did it to get some. we both had that understanding, it's no strings attached sex.
some guys do make love because of love - that's when they are truly in love.
so i think both sexes do both things.
2006-08-06 12:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. It depends on the situation, but i believe most ladys tend to Make Love coz it's much easier for ladies to love faster than men
2006-08-06 12:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by Miss M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋