i am 24. i am in love with a married woman 2 yrs older than me. is it a crime? is it wrong? how bad is it? how bad am i in your opinion? be honest please.
2006-08-06 05:40:04 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mmm, be honest please...you say, well man, be honest! Do you really, really need to ask that? And maybe you're not bad, but, you wouldn't want to be on the other side of the rope, would you?
2006-08-13 20:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To each his own. The fact that she is married is kinda a downer. Perhaps if she were seperated it would be a little softer on the thoughts.
Do you have a relationship with this woman, or do you just love her from afar? If you love her from afar, and are friends, then keep it that way. In today's day and age, marriages end rather quickly and suddenly.
If your in a relationship with her, that's a bit tougher. I would suggest breaking it off until she has seperated from her husband, as what is happening now is something I would not like, being a married man. Don't forget, if the husband finds out, there is a chance he will be angry. And if he's angry, there is a defense called temporary insanity which many people have used when finding their loved ones have been cheating on them to get out of Murder or Manslaughter charges.....
But again, need more info on what your relationship with this married woman is to help anymore.
ohhh, maybe ask yourself if the tables were turned. What if you were married to her, and she had a lover? Would you like it? Maybe that question can solve your dilema
2006-08-14 05:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not okay to love, to feel love. What is 'not' okay is for the other person to be married. This is wrong. Move out of this situation as quickly as you can. Sometimes people want the things they 'can't have' and confuse that with love, etc. You are 24 years old, don't mess your life up. Move on, forget this woman now! I'll pray for you for guidance -
2006-08-06 05:42:59 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think my neighbor is hot hot hot , he is married tho. I am 22 and he's prob like oh 36 , 37 . However , I think if his wife knew she would step on me and crush me like a lil' bug . I don't want to die. He has a couple of kids that I don't believe are his current wife's . So I'd bet he's got some skeletons in his closet . I don't think I'd pursue any type of relationship with him. I've had someone cheat on me and I would not want to do that to his wife even if I don't know her , because I wouldn't want someone to cheat on me. Karma really does work. I messed around with this girl's boyfriend and later wound up getting cheated on by my boyfriend. It occurred to me the other day why I like this guy more now than I did , its because of the things I am going through and he is SAFE . I can place feelings upon him which have no way of being reciprocated. What would this guy want me for anyways, a piece of *** and then if I wanted more , he could sick his wife on me. Like I stated earlier I don't want to die. There are lotz of single peeps out there somewhere over the rainbow. Gotta be .
Its a better alternative , then gettin ur *** whooped upon.
2006-08-06 06:09:27 · answer #4 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are feeling guilty, arent' you?
Yes, if she has kids she shouldn't really be having affairs. You will not be happy if children suffer because of you...and they usually do. If she is married, she should decide if she wants to stay married or not. No sitting on the fence and having her cake and eating it too.
You are in love....is she in love too? I think you are going to end up sad not bad.
Are you kidding about the crime thing? That depends on what country you live in. You had better find out quickly.
2006-08-06 05:46:29 · answer #5 · answered by grapeshenry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with falling for an older married woman but when she is in love with you and acts on it then it is wrong (on her part)
If you can get her to leave her hubby and take you i say go for it. Remember you are not doing anything wrong, as long as you don't have a gf.
2006-08-06 05:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by mørbidsшεεŧnεss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly , it's a 1 way relationship , somehow her husband will know about it and the other that u'll reach a dead end , for me it's not called a crime , but it's a faliure to launch realtion , finaly this lady ur in luv with is gonna turn back to her husband specialy if she has kids and let you down
you're losing both ways so let it go
what should you do ?
brake up suddenly and dont return any calls or try to even see her for 1 second , try not to b in the same place she's in for a while
good luck man
2006-08-14 02:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in love with a married women because it safe.
She, however, is an adulterer. She dishonors herself and her husband and family if there is one.
You are a merely fool to be involved with her. I knew a guy named Nate...He was a typewriter repairman for IBM and a really handsome dude, got shot on her front lawn on a Sunday morning at 6:00 AM by a jealous husband.
No it is not a crime but it is grounds for divorce.
How bad are you? Not for me to judge you.
2006-08-13 16:16:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is strange....especially if you know that you are speeding downhill but there aren't any brakes for you to come to a halt. It's really no sin to be in love...but if other innocent people were to suffer as a consequence of your illegitimate love, then re-think this situation that you are stuck in.
Don't assuem that this experience that you have right now is true love if you are already developing feelings of guilt or doubt. EveryONE says the same thing...I'm in love and he's/ she's the one for me. But when things don't work out, people do move on sooner or later and they find new partners who, again inspire them to utter the very same words....I'm in love and he's/ she's the one for me!
Only you can tell yourself, which is the right path for you. Whatever path you take, I just wish you'd be happy.
2006-08-06 05:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you cant always control who you love. I was in love with a married man when I waas17 he was 25 and we had a low key relationship for 3 years. He and his wife we always fighting (before I came along) and I really felt bad for her but I was in love with him. I am 24 now and would never make that mistake again. It ended very badly, what goes around comes around.
2006-08-06 05:44:28 · answer #10 · answered by UlickNme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? You can't help falling in love with someone. But to act on this, yes, it is wrong, very, very wrong. Although it may be the hardest thing you've ever done, you should distance yourself from this person. You have no idea of the problems, pain, confusion, betrayal, and legal ramifications you could cause.
2006-08-06 05:46:15 · answer #11 · answered by telaine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋