I was still having an orgasm & no less that 3 seconds later she said she was goona spend the weekend in SanDiego with her ex.
2 weekends before she supprised me & came over at 4:00 am & told me she was going to drive down to see her EX boyfriend. She left around 1:00 pm got there at 3:00 pm & didn't answer her phone after she got there. She called me at 11:00 pm & said she was on the way home. We had a big fight & then went to sleep. She wanted to have sex when we woke up, and when we did, she kept moving into positions I was not used too. Also, she was masturbating before I woke up. Acording to her, her Ex was very, very well endowed. I went soft inside her because I freaked out. She was moving so differently and was soooo streched out that It didn't feel very good for me.
I accused her of cheating & she swears she didn't... She says the dildo streched her out, but I am bigger than dildo.
Am I dumb for even asking for advice or should I have dumped her a long time ago???
2006-08-06 05:37:23 · 13 answers · asked by warscoob 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know damn well it's time to go. She screwing the ex. You do not deserve to disrespected like this. She is not committed to you and she will never respect you under these circumstances. She should never have mentioned to you the details of her sex with her ex. That is just tacky and crude. A real woman who genuinely cares for you would never try to make you feel insecure or threatened. She sees you as her toy. She can always come back to you and you'll take her. She sounds fickle and childish. There is unfinished business between her and her ex. Don't fall for that honesty crap about her trying to be upfront with you. That's no excuse to be playing with your emotions. With regard to her new movements and being stretched out, that happens when a woman is "giving it up out of both legs".That means she is sharing herself with someone other than you. She sounds like a freak and there's nothing wrong with that. The problem is that she is freaking someone other than you. Don't look for the truth from her. She isn't capable of sharing the truth with you. Let her go or accept that you have to share her with her ex.
2006-08-06 05:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her. She's cheating on you: BIG TIME! She didn't pick up your calls when she went down there...and then she's using different positions during sex. Those are really big clues that should've slapped you in the face. Actually, you should've dumped her a while ago when she took the long trip to see her ex.
2006-08-06 05:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Lavina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you can keep sleeping with her if you like, after all why not get yours, but I'd definatley end the relationship. Teat her the way she treats you. Just dont do anything special or out of your way for her. I'd bet that she is cheating, but there is no way to know for sure. I know girls that are still friends with their ex's but I'm pretty sure they dont drive all night to go see them for no reason or talk about them while in another mans bed. It was crude of her to talk about his size with you, after all what the heck do you care how big he is? Yeah dude, if you were my friend I'd tell you she's acting like a hoe and to dump her just as quick as you can!
2006-08-06 05:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have dumped her a while ago. You can't really tell just by how tight she is if she's been cheating or not, that can change just naturally. but going and spending the nights and especially right after sex... doesn't look good. I'd end it.
-Duo
2006-08-06 05:41:44 · answer #4 · answered by Duo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't even worry about whether she cheated on you or not. you can dump her just for going to go see her ex. That's a huge NO in my book.
2006-08-06 05:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you lucky dog! what more could you want? Do you really want to be stuck with her? Isn't she already giving you the best that she has to offer? Well, just node and smile.
2006-08-06 05:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by westhillplace 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch the Bi*ch, they are a dime a dozen. Everyone is replaceable.
2006-08-06 05:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by Mikey C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave her
dude i would of lefted her the first time she left to see her ex man so un coool
so ya leave her hanging
2006-08-06 05:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not being an honest laddy, talk to her and get it out of your system
2006-08-06 05:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by Miss M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude. coming from a woman. . . shes banging her ex. dump her ***.
2006-08-06 05:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by navygalstar1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋