I am really pretty and smart but I, for some reason, cant ask a guy out. Can you help me?
2006-08-06 05:34:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe that in the society that we live in nowadays it is quite acceptable for women to ask men out…in fact it can be quite a turn-on for men to be asked by a woman simply because usually it is the man asking the woman, when the rules are reversed and the man is pursued.
You say you are pretty and intelligent, all you need is the confidence to walk up the guy and ask him if he would like to go out sometime, you don’t need to ask for a date but you could ask him for coffee, or you could ask if he’d simply “like to do something sometime” most guys will pick up on that hint.
I suggest you just go for it, if one man turns you down it’s not the end of your life and after you did it for the first time it’s like a huge test in high school or college, you’ll be so relieved you can put it behind you ;)
2006-08-06 05:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by Saluki J 2 · 12⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with asking a guy out. Most guys love it when the girl makes the first move for a change. Find out what he likes to do from his friends. If he really wants to see this movie ask him if he would like to go watch it with you. Good luck!
2006-08-06 12:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is this, engage him in a conversation and start talking about the place where you want to take this guy, and carefully and subtlely suggest that the two of you try this place to see if it is as good as others say it is. If you play your cards right, he might not even suspect that you asked him out on a date. Good luck.
2006-08-06 12:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us guys love to be asked out. We hardly ever get it, and we like the fact that the pressure is off of us. Too many times we don't know if she likes us enough to even ask her out. So, believe it or not, things start out much easier when we are asked out because we know that you are interested. You will find that most guys, even though they my not be interested, will not shun you like a lot of women do if they're not interested. We will let you know how much we appreciate you asking us. So girls, ask away, it makes things alot easier and more comfortable.
2006-08-06 12:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by jbathletics 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a guy out the way guys ask you out... Its simple, and its all in the mind. Do not be afraid of rejections, and its hardly possible to get rejected, because most guys are really flattered and excited when girls ask them out for dates. They might even admire you more for being initiative and a good sport.
2006-08-06 12:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by winnie_1423 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a woman and you are not suppose to ask a guy out.
2006-08-06 12:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first take a deep breath. Than slowly open your mouth and move your tongue some to make words. Than just ask him out.
2006-08-06 12:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Polo2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be immature and play games. Tell him straight up that you want to go out sometime. I GUARANTEE that he will say yes. Men like confidence.
2006-08-06 12:41:27 · answer #8 · answered by lilbiggyadam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋