He is going away with his friends to New York City, when I asked him if I could go he said no, and his reasoning was all his friends are going to be there, and there not bringing their girlfriends. Is there something I should worry about? He went before last year with his friends too.
2006-08-06 04:49:29 · 25 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think there should be something to worry about. If the other guys aren't bringing their gf along, so it's just natural that your bf didn't invite you either. Let them just have their fun and do the boys' stuff. Some time apart will be good for both of you. The best part is that when he gets back you will have the chance to show him how much you've missed him.
2006-08-06 04:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Just because he is having a guy trip doesn't mean the end of your relationship. It's healthy for people to still be individuals. You need to trust him. It seems like you are looking for a reason to worry, unless he's given you reason in the past, let it go. I'm married and my husband and I do things with friends.
2006-08-06 11:53:56 · answer #2 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing to worry about. The guy wants to spend some time with his guy friends. It is good to take a break from each other once in while to keep things exciting otherwise you get sick of each other.
Dont worry, just plan a girls night out with your friends.
2006-08-06 11:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by kinito_2000_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to spend some quality time with his friends... If he doesn't get to see his friends alot, then you should embrace him going. But if he sees them more than you, dump him. Also, if its a city, the one thing that can go on in there is great shopping, maybe he's gonna get you something â¥
2006-08-06 11:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wants some time with his friends & without you. Being with someone doesn't mean you have to be joined at the hip. Use the time to catch up with your friends as well. Ask him to bring you a souvenir & leave it at that.
2006-08-06 11:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes we just need that time away from you. Has he given you a reason to be worried before? Relax
2006-08-06 11:55:49 · answer #6 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some stuffs are for guys alone.
There're somethings u wanna do and u don't want ur GF to be there, it's not lyk u wanna cheat on her but that's just the way it is.
You've got nottin to worry bout.
2006-08-06 11:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a guy trip. Since nobody else is bringing their girlfriend's then he can't either. If you trust your boy then let him go have fun.
2006-08-06 11:54:01 · answer #8 · answered by orionsgirl76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should go on your own trip with the girls. Make sure to tell him that he can't come along, and ask him not to call you on your cell. See how much he likes that.
2006-08-06 11:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might just want to have a trip with his friends, but if your really worried try asking him about it or sit back and take notice to any changes, if he goes out more and more with out you or works longer or more frequently, then ask him about it.
it may be nothing to worry about
2006-08-06 11:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by NoOneKnowsMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋