I haven't found it in the computer in a while now, but it just bugs me he won't confess to it, he insists it was either his friends on his computer, or a virus. But it was saved in temp files and even written in the search. I don't know what to do??
2006-08-06 04:46:08 · 34 answers · asked by Becca 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about it... He's embarassed that you actually caught him with the porn and thinks that if he admits it that you will get mad at him and not want to be with him any more... And unfortunteally, there is no reall "good" way to convince him otherwise...
Truthfully, I'd say go and find a porn that you think you would enjoy, and watch it with him... He seems to enjoy it, but considering he is embarassed about it, he seems to like you more...
2006-08-06 04:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by Rob D 4 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Sometimes porn sites are attached to quite innocent HP. Once I was looking for a lip stick and after I got some real porno photos coming through which I couldn't control. It became rather embarrassing, at times these pics would just appear without prompting. Finally I got a good anti-virus and that seemed to do the trick.
2006-08-06 04:52:59 · answer #2 · answered by Ya-sai 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a LIAR!! Its all him gimmee a break. Me and my wife have an understanding porn is porn is porn whether on the internet, movies, magazines and yes I enjoy it(and she does too sometimes) but as long is its just porn and not chat rooms and hook-up services she doesnt have problem with it. So tell him to fess up or hit the road cause if he lies about the lil stuff then what else is he keeping from you??
2006-08-06 04:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by t31sfd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since it hasnt been there anymore maybe it was his friend. He's a guy, what do you expect? Seriously, I can't name out one guy that dislikes porn. I'm sure my boyfriend likes porn and having the chance to watch it he probably would lol. I don't care. He's in the bed with me, not them, he's never going to be in the bed with them. Don't be so insecure and stop hunting him down about looking at porn. If it bothers you that much start watching porn and you'll see why he watches it too.
2006-08-06 04:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Porn can appear in your temp file from a pop up site while surfing elsewhere. It may be just a coincidence. Is it just a web page? If it's a movie then maybe he watched it.
2006-08-06 05:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by whatshisface 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just delete it. Tell him that you realize that either he "or his friend" had been looking at porn on your computer. Tell him that in the future if he "or his friend" feel the need to do this, please do it on another computer that you will not be coming in contact with.
It really is not that big of a deal. He "or his friend" may have just been curious but you need to make it clear. He probably felt pushed in a corner so he lied....you gave him no choice.
2006-08-06 05:04:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax!! he is a guy,and that is what we do,
My wife brings home porn for us to watch together and our sex life is great! You must have given him a reason some where along the lines to be ashamed of his sexuality.
Would you rather he be looking at gay porn or even worse cheating on you.
Try getting into it with him and see what he likes about it, you might even like it and it could totally change your sex life together..
2006-08-06 04:53:52 · answer #7 · answered by "THE BEAST" 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your computer can drag in tons of porn on it's own without the proper filters, quardwalls and blocks.
Religious sites and porn sites drag in the most viruses.
2006-08-06 04:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by pinkstealth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was probably his. Once in a while guys do go out check sites because they are curious, because they are lacking exciment in their relationship or because they are bored. Dont worry about it. It is normal, as long as it does not happen all the time and he is not looking at that every day, you are fine.
However, sometimes viruses can do that but it is unlikely.
2006-08-06 04:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by kinito_2000_1999 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon take it from a computer tech viruses dont give porn dont let him pull the wool over your eyes if he is a boy freind tell him you dont appreciate the porn also let him know porn is not virus related viruses cause computer damadge not porn
hope this helps
2006-08-06 04:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-08-06 04:52:06 · answer #11 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋