If he doesn’t know, either you are a masterful liar/actor or he his a dimwit. If he does know, he’s just milking the farm until you finally get the bull-parts to end it.
Either way, just be honest and tell him. It really is simple. I mean, what’s the alternative? Be subtle and manipulative until he gets the point? What would that make you? Just do it.
2006-08-06 04:39:09
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answered by ? 4
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Invite him on a date, just you and him, but make sure it's not fancy, just for a coffee or something. While you're on the date, say that you've been thinking a lot and you don't think you are ready to devote yourself to a serious relationship right now, and that you've really enjoyed the time spent together but that right now you think it would be best to take a break from the relationship. Say that you would still like to be friends, but you just don't want a relationship right now.
Look into his eyes while you explain this and try to be really sincere. If any part of what I told you to say doesn't work, you can change it. Just make sure that when you break up with him, you do it really gently and try to hurt him as little as possible. Good luck!
2006-08-06 11:42:43
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answered by q&a_08 4
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Here is what you say," I have been trying to think of a way to tell you something, It has not been easy and I do not want to string you along or hurt you anymore than I might be doing now. I do not love you." If he ask for a reason then tell him that it will not make any difference. Good luck.
2006-08-06 11:39:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Be honest. Tell him that you have grown apart, that you don't have the same feelings that you used to have about your relationship and you think it would be best for both of you to end the relationship. If he asks you if you still love him....be honest....tell him "no". Don't even think about being "friends" after ending a relationship. They best way to have complete break in any type of communication and go your separate ways. Don't have a big drama thing.....it does not help the cause.
2006-08-06 11:38:25
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answered by Anonymous
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well don't just tell him straight out i don't love you but rather tell him why you don't think the two of you working out or why you can't be with him anymore. If you really feel this way you should let him know right away as it is not fair to keep him in the dark about your feelings. Yes it is a hard thing to do because your hurting your partner but dragging it on hurts more. hope it works out for you keep me posted
2006-08-06 11:40:01
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answered by Karen M 1
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If you don't love him, then why are you with him.You will probably end up cheating on him.If you don't love him then tell him that.Don't beat around the bush if it will eventually get revealed anyways.If you are having sex with him and that is the basis of the relationship, them it is not a realationship.You are just 2 people who like to have sex with each others and he just got too emotional.And they say guys like to hurt girls fealings.If you are having sex, like it with him, and don't love him then just tell him that.And if you would still like to have sex with him tell him that too.I don't know why he would complain to an offer like that.
2006-08-06 11:40:21
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answered by Mitchell B 4
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So explain to me why he's your b-o-y-f-r-i-e-n-d? There's a difference in dating someone & being your boyfriend.
Or has he just told you he loves you & you've discovered you don't feel that way?
You need to tell him just that, and end the relationship. Don't string the poor guy along with hopes of you someday loving him.
2006-08-06 11:37:31
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answered by weddrev 6
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Just tell him. Are you such a dang prize that it will be the end of his life? It's not like you're married or anything, he's just the guy you do.
Grow up. Be honest. Get a move on.
Do it now.
2006-08-06 11:35:15
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answered by Grendle 6
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It's easier to just be honest than to let him find out months down the road that you are cheating or something. That would be even more devastating. Honesty is always best.
2006-08-06 11:35:56
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answered by orionsgirl76 3
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Just tell him how you feel now. Both of you have to sort this out as no 3rd party can help over this.
2006-08-06 11:44:40
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answered by engineerpig 3
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